[Don Bozo el Guapo]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Praise Jesus! I'm sure you've beaten countless wives, brother.

Yes and not just my own as Mrs. Ezekiel will breathfully attest.

[Sister Kitty]

Re: I left last night

Well Sister, you seem to enjoy being disciplined as you actually beg your husband on a fairly regular basis for it. Somehow I don't find torn muscles (my shoulder still hurts) and bruises so enjoyable.

I do not enjoy being disciplined, I simply accept what punishment I have earned and deserve, as any Christian should. I have spoken with my husband, and he agrees that I should travel to Freehold during your Independence Day celebrations to speak with the Pastors about spreading the Word to the unsaved in the arctic. Brother James DeWitt says I may stay at his compound in exchange for light cleaning duties. I will arrive on July 2. Perhaps when I am there we can meet and discuss the subject of discipline. I not only know how to accept it, but also how to administer it.

I rarely smile. This makes me smile.

[James Dewitt]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Sister Kitty I am very glad you accepted the invitation. (Jean, my bride is looking forward to meeting you). We will have a room waiting for you. My idiot son is moving to Canada he is engaged to Brother Enoch's half Eskimo daughter, so his room is all yours. You are welcome to say as long as you like. YIC James

[BelieverInGod]

Re: I left last night

Look at it this way. God is above us all. He tells us what to do, we are not to question Him. If we do, we can expect repercussions. We do as He tells us. We do not disagree or only follow part of what He demands. The people that do are wishy washy Sunday only salad bar Christians. We are True Christan's™. We follow His every word, every second of every day of every week of every year, without falter or deviation. I am sure you agree with me on this.

Yes God is in charge, however Jesus said that we can do all things through him. Well I fast and I pray, and I pray and I fast. I try to be the perfect wife. My husband brought home the movie "the Stepford Wives" a while back and I'm asking myself if that's what he wants, they were robots, I can't compete with a robot.

Jesus said that if we have the faith of a mustard seed, we can do anything. Well I pray for it to stop, do I not have enough faith? Am I not a True Christian(TM) Why won't God stop it? I don't know how to have any more faith.

Now, God is the head honcho. God manages your Husband. Your Husband manages you and his sons. You manage your daughters. Therefore, you Husband is only doing Gods bidding. You do not want him to go against God's wishes, do you?

You're telling me God wanted him to be doing what he was doing?

Think about how your Husband feels and more importantly, how God feels. I suspect he is fairly sad over the whole sordid matter.
I think it would be in your best interst to spring clean the house, and bake a few pies. Show everyone you have learned your lessons. It is important you put on a smile and show the world the perfect life you are living.

I just can't do it.

I go to public school. I have NO PROBLEM holding on to my faith. We have a Christian club and many of my church's teens go there. Teachers do not pollute the minds of kids. Thats a brainwash that fundamentalists force on people like you. Teachers are NOT allowed to share their opinions about religion, politics, etc. It is STRICTLY education. How about let your children be socialized, get out of the house and let them have a chance of a real education. Homeschooling will NOT get them scholarships, put them on a sports team or get them into a decent college. Also, they need to learn to get along with people of different creeds,religions and races. How else will they handle the world? I am deeply sorry about your situation and will pray for you, however, do yourself a favor, let the kids have a life. I what your teaching them about faith really is what they hold themselves to, public school will not interfear with their beliefs.Once again, I am praying for you.

What does homeschooling have to do with anything? Are you saying that my husband hit me because I homeschool the children?

Um that husband beat his wife for no reason. You did NOTHING WRONG. ITS NOT YOUUR FAULT!!!! Get help! No one should beat his wife. Wheres the respect for you as a woman? Mother of his children? You gave up your antire LIFE and FUTURE to become his houswife. While I 100 percent respect this and paraise you for this, he could caren less. You deserve SO much better. Ignore these people, the man has no control over you, you can submit and trust him, but submit does NOT mean TAKING A BEATING! And I am not Unsaved Trash.

What do you mean I gave up my life? The children and the house are my life! I would fight to the death for my children. What better? I should subject them to a roach infested basement apartment while I work at McDonalds and have no time for them? Send them to public school where they can learn how to use and sell drugs? I'm completely trapped. Is it better to go back, take the beatings, but give my children a good life? Or is it better to leave and put the kids in a poverty that they will probably never escape.

[James Hutchins]

Re: I left last night

Yes God is in charge, however Jesus said that we can do all things through him. Well I fast and I pray, and I pray and I fast. I try to be the perfect wife. My husband brought home the movie "the Stepford Wives" a while back and I'm asking myself if that's what he wants, they were robots, I can't compete with a robot.

Jesus said that if we have the faith of a mustard seed, we can do anything. Well I pray for it to stop, do I not have enough faith? Am I not a True Christian™ Why won't God stop it? I don't know how to have any more faith.

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Of course your Husband does not want you to be a robot, do not be ridiculous. Robots cannot have babies.
See, that is part of your issue here, you are jumping to all sorts of conclusions without a shred of evidence. What your Husband wants is for you to perform your wifely duties. I know you have read the KJV1611 Bible, you know what God says. But you seem to resist and want to 'do your own thing'. Then you are surprised when there is backlash. If your Husband was wronging you, God would punish him. God has not done so. Why? Because your Husband did nothing wrong. I am sure you have noticed over time, the bruises became more and more severe, right? God made them so, each time, attempting to make you more and more aware of His displeasure with your behavior. God will stop the beating when you abide by His and your Husbands words.

Here is a hint. My wife knows, when she has made a mistake to perform all responsibilities extra well and then go above and beyond. When I come home, A cool beverage is waiting for me. The children are up in bed, sleeping quietly. The house is spotless. My favorite dinner is waiting. My wife stays in the kitchen or goes out to hand wash my truck, allowing me to eat my dinner in peace. I'll find a note, admitting her transgression and a list of the extras she accomplished. She knows the values of all the tasks and makes sure she stays on the positive side.

She does not complain, She holds her head low until I forgive her.

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

I'm going to guess that this is her unclean time. Women get all manner of wacky ideas in their heads when they start bleeding from their genitals. That's why God ordered them to seperate themselves from us.

Leviticus 15:19-30
And if a woman have an issue, and her issue in her flesh be blood, she shall be put apart seven days: and whosoever toucheth her shall be unclean until the even. And every thing that she lieth upon in her separation shall be unclean: every thing also that she sitteth upon shall be unclean. And whosoever toucheth her bed shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. And whosoever toucheth any thing that she sat upon shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. And if it be on her bed, or on any thing whereon she sitteth, when he toucheth it, he shall be unclean until the even. And if any man lie with her at all, and her flowers be upon him, he shall be unclean seven days; and all the bed whereon he lieth shall be unclean. And if a woman have an issue of her blood many days out of the time of her separation, or if it run beyond the time of her separation; all the days of the issue of her uncleanness shall be as the days of her separation: she shall be unclean. Every bed whereon she lieth all the days of her issue shall be unto her as the bed of her separation: and whatsoever she sitteth upon shall be unclean, as the uncleanness of her separation. And whosoever toucheth those things shall be unclean, and shall wash his clothes, and bathe himself in water, and be unclean until the even. But if she be cleansed of her issue, then she shall number to herself seven days, and after that she shall be clean. And on the eighth day she shall take unto her two turtles, or two young pigeons, and bring them unto the priest, to the door of the tabernacle of the congregation. And the priest shall offer the one for a sin offering, and the other for a burnt offering; and the priest shall make an atonement for her before the LORD for the issue of her uncleanness.

[BelieverInGod]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time.

Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy?

In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

[Sister Kitty]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time.

Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy?

In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

So you still have not done the right thing. I will continue praying for your husband and sons.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time. Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy? In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

Is there really no man around who can talk to your husband on your behalf?

The husband of one of my daughters was not treating her right and after I politely discussed that matter with him during a hunting party he started treating her a lot better.

[James Hutchins]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

No it's not my unclean time.

Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy?

In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

I am glad to hear the boys will be where they belong, with their dad, doing masculine things.
The last thing they need to do is be hanging about the place with you while you are cleaning and ironing. I'd hate that to provide inspiration to go all Homer.
Hopefully their dad will take them hunting with a gun.

[Sister Kitty]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Hopefully their dad will take them hunting with a gun.

for their mother

Indeed. That is exactly what they need.

[Nutella88]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

So children do not belong with their mother?

[Rev. M. Rodimer]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Teachers are NOT allowed to share their opinions about religion, politics, etc. It is STRICTLY education.

I what your teaching them about faith really is what they hold themselves to, public school will not interfear with their beliefs.

I guess you're not in Oregon, where it's now perfectly legal for teachers to share their false, non-Christian religions in the classroom:

Oregon Governor Ted Kulongoski today helped turn back the clock on separation of church and state, reintroducing religion into public school classrooms and setting the stage for proselytizing, all in the politically-correct name of "tolerance".

Even as Belgium bans the burqa and Switzerland suppresses minarets, resistance to religious intrusions into the public sphere seem to be weakening in the United States. It's as though Americans are drifting off just as Europe begins to wake up.

"What's the harm in a hajib," you ask? "Why the terror over a turban? Why do you care about a crucifix?"

Teachers are in a position of authority in a classroom. Teachers wearing "religious garb" are not only confronting students with their religious beliefs -- a matter that is none of the students' concern -- but also opening a door for proselytizing. "Why do you dress like that?" "Oh, it's part of my religion. Let me tell you all about it after class . . ."

I not only know how to accept it, but also how to administer it.

I rarely smile. This makes me smile.

Will you be giving live demonstrations at Mr. DeWitt's estate? It may be worth a visit . . .

In other news, the boys will be spending the weekend with him, but I'll be staying at my brothers.

But he's demonically possessed! How can you leave him unattended? Don't you know that demonically possessed, sex-crazed men -- you know, like Catholic priests -- often bugger little boys, or throw themselves down the basement stairs?

[Nurse Clampett]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Okay, maybe not a robot, but a lobotomy. Would a lobotomy make him happy?

Sister, this is an area I have some knowledge of. A lobotomy is not always a bad thing. You will end up living as your husband wishes without even knowing exactly how you're doing it. Many unpleasant memories will be removed and you and your husband can start with a clean slate. Now, this is the most drastic way to go about repairing your marriage. There is also the drool issue, which is so very messy, but if you feel there is no other way let me know. My equipment is sterile, my hands are shaky, but I pray before surgery so you should be fine. Well, mostly fine at least.
You'll be in my prayers.

[Dr.ArmyGirl]

Re: Help - my husband beat me up - what can I do?

Look, people in this forum already dont like me because I say the truth. God DOES not want you to go through Hell everyday.

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They will help you with what you need.

Right now, the dogs arent important. Just get your sweethearts away from that man so they dont become like him and explain to him that what their father did is wrong.

Dont let these misogynists tell you that your husband has every right to beat you, he doesnt and you should report this DOMESTIC ABUSE to the police. Dont let it happen to another woman.