Hello

[godismysaviour]

I am a young girl of 18 from England.

I am feeling a lot of pressure from my friend to have sexual intercourse, but i want to wait until i happily married.
I myself feel that i can wait and of course do not mind waiting, but i wish my friends would understand this.

I also was sexually abused younger as a child from my grandfather, and was wondering what effect this would have on my afterlife.

Thanks.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Hello

I also was sexually abused younger as a child from my grandfather, and was wondering what effect this would have on my afterlife.

Why did you seduce your grandfather?

[godismysaviour]

Re: Hello

I did not seduce my grandfather. I was fully clothed in my bed asleep when i awoke to find him pleasuring himself whilst touching my genitals. I was 8 years old.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Hello

I did not seduce my grandfather. I was fully clothed in my bed asleep when i awoke to find him pleasuring himself whilst touching my genitals. I was 8 years old.

You are not making sense here. How could he have touched your genitals if you were fully clothed?

[Bobby-Joe]

Re: Hello

I am a young girl of 18 from England.

I am feeling a lot of pressure from my friend to have sexual intercourse, but i want to wait until i happily married.
I myself feel that i can wait and of course do not mind waiting, but i wish my friends would understand this.

I also was sexually abused younger as a child from my grandfather, and was wondering what effect this would have on my afterlife.

Thanks.

Hi and welcome to our Christian forum friend

I hope Jesus protects you from your so called friends who want to debauch you. I will pray The Lord will shield you from you tormentors and strikes them down with the nasty deaths they deserve.

[godismysaviour]

Re: Hello

Sorry, i should have rephrased myself.
I was fully clothes, but his hands were under my underwear.

[godismysaviour]

Re: Hello

Hi and welcome to our Christian forum friend

I hope Jesus protects you from your so called friends who want to debauch you. I will pray The Lord will shield you from you tormentors and strikes them down with the nasty deaths they deserve.

Hello,
Thank you, i hope so too. That is very kind of you.

[Cranky Old Man]

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Sorry, i should have rephrased myself. I was fully clothes, but his hands were under my underwear.

Then you were not wearing proper Christian clothing. So you seduced your grandfather by being almost naked it seems. You will have to pray to Jesus for forgiveness for this sin.

[godismysaviour]

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I was not almost naked. I was wearing socks, long trousers, underwear, long sleeved t shirt and also had a duvet to cover me.
I am being very specific because obviously i remember this night.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Hello

I was not almost naked. I was wearing socks, long trousers, underwear, long sleeved t shirt and also had a duvet to cover me.

As I already mentioned you were not wearing proper Christian clothing. 1 Deuteronomy 22:5 "The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God." 1 Timothy 2:9-10 "In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array"

[James Hutchins]

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God will forgive you. Have you fogiven your Grandfather? Have you apologized for your part of the responsibility?

You know, if you have sex, you must marry the man you have sex with (Deutronomy). I suggest marrying him first as it has less complications. Unless you like being a dirty filthy slut.