My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

[MisterM]

I feel sad, angry and betrayed. All I can do I to prey Jesus to let me understand why I'm punished with this. My third child is going to be a girl!

End of last year, I was so happy when my wife told me that she is ok with more children. Yes, I'm married with woman who is not yet True Christian. She tries to be but she still has some issues with being subservient and she used birth control without me knowing. When she confessed this and promised me that she'll make as many babies as I want, I forgave her. You can imagine how happy I was when some time ago she told me that she was going to give me a son! LORD was so happy with me that HE let my wife to get pregnant so quick.

We celebrated this well. I even canceled my missionary trip to brazil to have nice weekend in the spa with my wife. I also gave my wife lots of flowers and let her do some shopping. Then everything changed:

We had time for the ultrasound few days ago. Because I was so happy, we went to the more expensive 3D ultrasound, which gives pretty clear picture. During the ultrasound, doctor asked if we wanted to know the gender and I just told that it is a boy. Doctor said that no, it is actually a girl and then started to show us the private parts of the baby! I was speechless. My wife had deceived me. All the celebration, spa, everything was just undeserved. I was so angry that I slapped my wife in the face and walked out. I have been so angry since that I haven't been even able to talk to my wife, fearing that I would use too much force and maybe even kill the baby.

Don't get me wrong here, I have nothing against girls. I love girls as much as boys. And girls are almost as important as boys. Without women, there would not be more children and I guess that your houses would be really mess without our wives and daughters cleaning and cooking. You could even say that True Christian girl can be better than unsaved boy. The problem I have is that my wife lied. God punished us with the girl because my wife was a sinner. But girls are not something to be celebrated like boys.

I'm lost here. What should I do? All I can think is Proverbs 6:16-19 that says that God hates my wife now.

What should I do?

YiC, M

[MisterM]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

Well, I got the situation in control. We had a "talk" and I ended up sending her to my father-in-law. She wasn't showing me respect she should and I hit her hard enough to give her black eye. So let her heal her face there and come back after that. I agreed with my father-in-law that he will keep her working on a field whole week.

Anyway, she was sorry and she did spent long time in prayer closet. I just hope Jesus can forgive her too.

YiC, M

[HTannor]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

What a terrible waste of Godly Seed™, Brother M. My condolences.

Is there any chance you can claim the female child is not yours?

Perhaps a DNA test can verify your innocence and and you can sue the milkman? The green grocer? Maybe that fag running around in papal garb? Or whoever else your unfaithful wife smiles at?

It's too bad you're stuck in the frozen north country. If the suit was filed in my court, I can assure you of a favorable ruling.

[Marshall]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

She may have cheated on you!

[LissyLovesHerself]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

You should love your baby just as much.

[Marshall]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

What he needs to do is have the baby tested to make sure its his. He prayed for a son and didnt get one so something is wrong.

[Little Donkey]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

Consider the spa an early celebration for your NEXT child (son). Immediately after the girl is born, you must impregnate your wife so she can make you whole on her promise nine months later. Better late than never, right? Glass is half full and all that

No need to celebrate again, she already had her fun. This is all about you, so enjoy it! Talking about the glass being half full.... time to treat yourself, Sir.

[PinkMirrorOfProblems]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

She may have been told it was a boy but it wasnt.

[MisterM]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

What he needs to do is have the baby tested to make sure its his. He prayed for a son and didnt get one so something is wrong.

Is there any chance you can claim the female child is not yours?

Perhaps a DNA test can verify your innocence and and you can sue the milkman? The green grocer? Maybe that fag running around in papal garb? Or whoever else your unfaithful wife smiles at?

You might be right. It is possible that if she is capable of lying, she is capable of cheating me. It would definitely explain why God gave her daughter as a punishment. If the girl is born and it is not mine, I will sue the fish salesman, who goes door-to-door selling frozen fish (local eskimo way), it must have been him. I say IF, because God can take what God gives. She might be punished with miscarriage.

Hosea 9:14 - Give them, O Lord: what wilt thou give? Give them a miscarrying womb and dry breasts.

No need to celebrate again, she already had her fun. This is all about you, so enjoy it!

Splendid idea. When she carries son to me, I'm going to celebrate without her. She had her fun.

She may have been told it was a boy but it wasnt.

Yes I know. It was the whole point here

Anyway, this in God's hands now. I'm going to make peace with her, I don't have any clean underwear left and I NOT going to use washing machine As a peace offering, I reserved a two weeks action holiday for her. It is going to have bungee jumps, parachuting, rafting, mountain climbing and then skiing down. All days filled with action and almost no time to sleep. I bet she needs lots of coffee to stay awake.

YiC, M

[appletree]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

Actually it's your fault. You didn't gave her Y chromosome.

[Talitha]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

Actually it's your fault. You didn't gave her Y chromosome.

That is such a cruel thing to say at such a tragic time.
Prayer is far more powerful than science.
We are talking about God here.

[MisterM]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

Actually it's your fault. You didn't gave her Y chromosome.

First of all, child's gender has nothing to do with me. It is God who gives us the gender. Secondly it is not even sure that the child is mine

And as I said, I would be happy with the girl if I hadn't prayed for a boy. And if she hadn't lied to me.

YiC, M

[appletree]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

That is such a cruel thing to say at such a tragic time.
Prayer is far more powerful than science.
We are talking about God here.

But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

MisterM it's your fault that child is a girl.
And so what you prayed for a boy and god gave you a girl. Be happy.

[MisterM]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

MisterM it's your fault that child is a girl.
And so what you prayed for a boy and god gave you a girl. Be happy.

Pike is a fish, pike is a fish, pike is a fish and lives in a tree? You can repeat the thing as many times you like, but it does not make it true.

It has nothing to do with me. It was my wife's fault. And anyway, the problem was the LYING

YiC, M

[Redeemed Papist]

Re: My wife betrayed me, we are getting daughter not son!

Why is that appletree troll continuing to harass the righteous MisterM by saying it is his fault? His only fault is continuing to tolerate his wife's failure and relying on dumb "science" to pre-empt the actual day of birth and go behind God's back. Doubtless his ungrateful harpy of a wife convinced him it was right to meddle with the will of God with Satan's filthy technology.

He and his wife shoulld pray hard and this time not let the atheist doctors interfere with God's will by peeking and meddling and I'm sure all will be well.

All this talk of genes and other daft scientist hogwash is just confusing and getting in the way of proper management of family issues. How is a wife supposed to know her place when scientists are constantly telling her that her husband could in some way be to blame for this tragic birth of another unfortunate girl child?