Steering My Daughter To Light

[FantaMan]

I look to Landover for advice. Here is what is troubling me in my life. My daughter is in college out of state, despite my objections of staying home and helping her mother with household work and learning to bake pecan pies from her.

She is learning the filthy false stuff about evolution in college. But that is not all- she met an unsaved boy there, and wants to get married.

I have tried my best to tell her that a non christian boy would burn in hell and will bring her there with him. She is misguided because he graduated and has a stable job, owns his house, and his family loves her. How can I make her realize that simply having a stable job, a loving family, and a home is not enough. If a guy is not saved he is horrible and she would not be able to have any soldiers for Christ. She will go and burn in hell till the end of time with him.

What can I do, help me.

[Nobar King]

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You need to take control of this situation. Get your daughter out of that place and back into your house.

[FantaMan]

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You need to take control of this situation. Get your daughter out of that place and back into your house.

I tried with all the might the good Lord gave me, but I failed. She has gone to the world and the devil has his grasp on her. She has become entangled in his evil web and is getting misguided. How else can she even dare to think of dating someone without me telling her to? How can she imagine herself with an unsaved man; a sinner?

This is a classic text book example of the Devil's powers. I thought I was doing my part of helping my daughter see the light when I used to regularly beat the Satan out of her before she went to college (with the help of my wife), but now I realize that was not enough.

What else can I do to save my daughter from eternal damnation?

[GOD=life]

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Friend, I feel deep sympathy with your plight.

However, all hope is not lost. You said your daughter wants to marry. That is a good thing and a sign you managed to put some of God's values in her! Many girls in her position might fornicate with many different young men and act like complete sluts.

They key to the solution seems to be the young man. You must meet this man and explain God's plan for your daughter. If necessary, use a show of force to express to make an impression.

Through solid and factual argumentation, it may be possible to convince the young man to cut ties with his own sinful family and become part of your household.

[I'm just a naughty boy]

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I look to Landover for advice. Here is what is troubling me in my life. My daughter is in college out of state, despite my objections of staying home and helping her mother with household work and learning to bake pecan pies from her.

She is learning the filthy false stuff about evolution in college. But that is not all- she met an unsaved boy there, and wants to get married.

I have tried my best to tell her that a non christian boy would burn in hell and will bring her there with him. She is misguided because he graduated and has a stable job, owns his house, and his family loves her. How can I make her realize that simply having a stable job, a loving family, and a home is not enough. If a guy is not saved he is horrible and she would not be able to have any soldiers for Christ. She will go and burn in hell till the end of time with him.

What can I do, help me.

Let her believe what she wants, marry who she wants, be who she wants. This isn't the 1700's, women no longer spend all day cooking. They have the same rights as you. How would you feel if your wife said you had to stay home all day concealed to just one room. She is an adult now. Let her do what she wants.

[brittishboy]

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i completely agree, she is a free woman now, who chooses her own path in life.

[Rev. Jim Osborne]

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This is indeed a dire situation! Christians are commanded not to marry unsaved scum such as this man.

2nd Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

It looks to me that she is led astray by his worldly wealth. He has a good job and a house, and she's thinking about money and not her own Salvation. His family is probably putting on a big show about loving her. They are probably atheist trash that are trying to brainwash an innocent Christian girl.

1st John 2:15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

So what should you do? I advise stepping up as a father and taking the situation under firm control. Lure your daughter back home during her next break. Forcefully have her break off all contact with this predatory scumbag. Remove her from college, cancel her cell phone, ban her from using computers. Women shouldn't even be in college, for Heaven's sake!

Have her stay in her room and make sure you have a lock on it is on the outside so you can lock her in. Lock the windows or put bars over it (don't worry about the fire codes). Isolate her from the rest of the world because obviously she is too easily swayed by it. Leave her alone in that room with just a King James Bible so she can renew her relationship with Jesus Christ.

These corrections may sound harsh, but if you really do love your daughter as I think you do, you would be willing to give her some tough love.

[brittishboy]

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jim, i hope the lord strikes you down to the fiery pits of hell for being a prat. have a nice day!

[brittishboy]

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jim, take a chill pill fella, i aint apologising to anyone, in fact i could throw that back at you for insulting me with your petty infractions with an apology. but i doubt id get it and so u do the same, doubt you will get it. so take your petty words of hate andkeep them to yourself, all i get from this infuriating website is to use your caps. im going to hell for believing another form of the bible,it is wrong not to hit your wife, etc etc... delete my account you bunch of vile, inbred, pathetic fools, your all damned to hell, and good riddance to you.

[Rev. Jim Osborne]

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Can you show us where in Scripture we have deviated? Name book/chapter/verse of something we fail to follow. I'm waiting.

[Ezekiel Bathfire]

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It's no good Rev. Jim, britishboy has run away like all those limeys did at the Battle of Harlem Heights.

They've no stomach for a fight and hold their faith lightly.

[I'm just a naughty boy]

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It's no good Rev. Jim, britishboy has run away like all those limeys did at the Battle of Harlem Heights.

They've no stomach for a fight and hold their faith lightly.

What are on about?

[shameroncollier]

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let her get married to the guy...you're saying that this guy is an unbeliever?? if so, and if your daughter has the same values as you, she will show him her ways of doing things, and if he doesnt like it, she will move on....and you cant just take happiness away from people (its not just to do so)....if he is not saved, you cant just assume that this guy is NEVER going to get saved....he's still young, living his life let him....he can still get saved....how it is now is not necessarily how its going to be forever....give the guy a chance....and she's grown, she can do what she wants.....and you beating her didnt help the situation at all....that makes them more likely to show you disrespect when they leave home...they think "oh, my father/mother isnt here to keep me from doing whatever i never got to do when i was home, im FREE!! i can do (whatever is it) now"....they are no longer in your clutches and dont have to worry about getting beat when they do whatever it is that they want

[Noah Dint]

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let her get married to the guy...you're saying that this guy is an unbeliever?? if so, and if your daughter has the same values as you, she will show him her ways of doing things, and if he doesnt like it, she will move on....and you cant just take happiness away from people (its not just to do so)....if he is not saved, you cant just assume that this guy is NEVER going to get saved....he's still young, living his life let him....he can still get saved....how it is now is not necessarily how its going to be forever....give the guy a chance....and she's grown, she can do what she wants.....and you beating her didnt help the situation at all....that makes them more likely to show you disrespect when they leave home...they think "oh, my father/mother isnt here to keep me from doing whatever i never got to do when i was home, im FREE!! i can do (whatever is it) now"....they are no longer in your clutches and dont have to worry about getting beat when they do whatever it is that they want

What an amazingly spineless reply. You sir are a perfect illustration of 99% of the world's problems.

"Just let her..." That's the problem with most of the damn (Yes, they are most likely damned to hell) kids these days. Liberal parenting by wishy washy parents that had wishy washy parents. "Just let her..." - be a whore is what you are saying. She needs a man of value, not some "male" that is only concerned with his next beer because he's so infantile that he substitutes that for a titty in his mouth.

Children need guidance. With some it's just a gentle nudge in the right direction by giving them the right suggestions. With some children it may take a 2x4 between the eyes to get their attention. Wrong is wrong. Always has been.

"Let him live his life, he still has plenty of time to be saved?" That is the motivation of the fact that send you to hell.

1) Grow up.
2) Read your Bible and learn THE TRUTH about Jesus.
3) Accept his love.
4) Be attentive to your parents wisdom. (Providing they are real True Christian(tm) parents)
5) Do not come here and fill the minds of the weak with even weaker thoughts. They come here looking for good advice, not the words of an idiot.

-ND

[Ala123]

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My advice to your daughter is to stay as far away from your home as possible. A person going out on their own to experience what they need to in order to form their own beliefs is crucial. The fact that you don't want her to be educated in other beliefs tells me that you are scared that she will find something else to believe in. What she wants is a more accepting household and if you cannot provide this then perhaps she is better off on her own.