Advice please

[Proudspankedwife]

I’m new to this site, but my heart leaps for joy that I have found you! Husband and I believe in domestic discipline , but cannot find a church that accepts the truth that it is the way of the Lord. Any advice for us?

[Romeo Rovagnati]

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Well yes my dear, why won't you attend the closer Catholic Church in your area? It may teach you how to discipline a woman.

[Mary Etheldreda]

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I’m new to this site, but my heart leaps for joy that I have found you! Husband and I believe in domestic discipline , but cannot find a church that accepts the truth that it is the way of the Lord. Any advice for us?

Welcome to our friendly forums, Proudspankedwife! You'll find lots of support and good advice here! Why don't you tell us a bit about yourself and especially your walk with Jesus! I can't wait to hear your testimony!

[Basilissa]

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I’m new to this site, but my heart leaps for joy that I have found you! Husband and I believe in domestic discipline , but cannot find a church that accepts the truth that it is the way of the Lord. Any advice for us?

I believe you need more beating to get that pride out of you.

Nonetheless, to our friendly forum! Which Bible verse do you call your favorite?

[Proudspankedwife]

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Thank you for the welcome. I feel so honored to be able to fellowship and learn from good GODLY Christians. I strive to become more like the obedient wives here. We’ve been married for twenty years. We thought we were following God’s word, but the Lord opened our eyes a few years ago. The more we studied the Bible, the more we realized that our marriage was not a Godly one. I was unsubmissive, disrespectful, and just a general brat. I swore to him that I would change, with his help. I asked him if he would discipline me from that moment on. He saw that this was his place, and his right, as my leader.

The first few months were quite tame. Our church was very liberal, and we were not getting any guidance. We had no idea how to go about this properly, so it took a lot of prayer and reading the word to fully grasp this concept. At first, the “spankings” were just lite stinging slaps. But , Praise God, we gradually found the true meaning of discipline. I am proud to say that he spanks/beats me regularly for maintenance, and punishes me severely for all transgressions. Over time, I’ve learned to go with him to ask for correction for every impure, ungodly, or unsubmissive thought that creeps in my mind or heart. I regularly have welts, bruises, and whip marks on my body. I receive maintenance every morning (belt and fists), pre-emotive soankings before every outing (cane and flogging), and a punishment beating on an average of three times a week (belt, cane, flogger, fists, and corner time). In our house, I am always naked, and he always has a cane in hand to slap me with whenever he feels the Holy Spirit tell him to. I am spanked/beaten on my rear, legs, breasts, face, lady parts, and any where else that he feels needs a mark. When we go out of the house, I only wear a dress with no underwear, and he has me carry a purse that only has my ID and a tool called a “loopy Johnny” that is pretty silent. Any time he feels I need to be struck, he takes me to a bathroom, wooded area, or the back of our van. I lift my dress over my head, and he flights me with the loopy johnny. If I have done something that needs correcting, the loopy Johnny is used on me at least fifty times. If he is just spanking me because he feels the need, it can range from 5 strokes to 50. I then drop my dress back over my battered body, and we continue our outing.

There are times that he feels my body needs a break. Usually for seven days at a time, he allows my skin to heal. For these days, my maintenance is one hour of prayer on my face at his feet. Pre-emptive is an hour of corner time, and any transgression is logged in my journal for proper punishment at the end of the week. Plus, an hour of memorizing scriptures that he feels is relevant to my transgression. At the end of the 7 days, he inspects my skin, and prays for God to advise him on whether or not it is time to beat me again. I sit at his feet as he tells me that I will be spanked beginning the following day, or whether we will continue the healing for another 72 hours. The longest healing time was 13 days. And, I must admit, by day 11, I could tell I needed his firm hand. I could feel my heart and mind beginning to stray. I told him this, so for days 11, 12, and 13, I was told to fast and pray in my closet. I was only permitted water, juice, and a bathroom break every four hours. I was told to pray out loud so he could hear, and he would gently remind me of scriptures to recite so I could keep my mind pure. This must’ve been just what I needed, for I did not require a punishment spanking for quite some time after. Because of that, at least once a month, I spend all night in the closet in prayer.

I still need a lot of work. It is hard to keep out thoughts of sex. Before our eyes were opened to true discipline, I was very sexually aggressive. I’m truly ashamed of this, and even more ashamed that I still occasionally become aroused. I have learned to go to his feet, though, and admit my arousal. He then punishes me, and lectures me about purity. He does such a good job of that! He still makes live to me frequently, but I have learned to totally be for him, and to not give in to the devil trying to make me give in to behaving like a “whore”.

So, any advice for me? Any thing that I should pray about?

[Proudspankedwife]

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I believe you need more beating to get that pride out of you.

Nonetheless, to our friendly forum! Which Bible verse do you call your favorite?

Sorry if I sound prideful. My husband picked my username because he says I should be “proud” of my progress. He thoroughly beats me if I show any signs of a prideful nature.

My favorite bible verse is

Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands." Proverbs 14:1, but I also love all of Proverbs 31.

[Mary Etheldreda]

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So, any advice for me? Any thing that I should pray about?

Well dear, that sounds like a question your husband can answer. Besides, the menfolk here aren't too keen on looking after other men's wives. I'm pretty sure no one will have read the entire post, as they tend to become distracted when they see a woman has more than about ten or twenty words to say, and none of these words include the phrase, "dinner is ready."


Now, having said that, I'm thrilled to see someone taking the Holy Bible seriously! I look forward to your contributions elsewhere on our delightful forum!

[Evilutionist Clive]

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I’m new to this site, but my heart leaps for joy that I have found you! Husband and I believe in domestic discipline , but cannot find a church that accepts the truth that it is the way of the Lord. Any advice for us?

You're insane sis LOL


I know lots of women who're into BDSM. It does involve a copious amount of spanking. But that's just for roleplay. I don't understan why you would be willing to transfer that setting into a marital union. But your choice, doesn't matter.

[Didymus Much]

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...I don't understan why you would be willing to transfer that setting into a marital union...

Because you've never read the Bible (you should).


It's their truth, and they don't care about yours.

[Evilutionist Clive]

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Because you've never read the Bible (you should).


It's their truth, and they don't care about yours.

By your profile description, you seem to be an atheist.


Do you feel comfortable in the company of fundamentalist Christians? I've never been in that sort of environment. That's why asking.

[Evilutionist Clive]

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Because you've never read the Bible (you should).


It's their truth, and they don't care about yours.

Also I don't get it. Why does my profile description read Unsaved Trash? I just joined a little while ago. Why treat new visitors to this forum with so much condescension? We're not bad folks are we?


Say what, did you vote for Donald Trump? I think he's a funny clown.

[Dr Laurence Niles]

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Also I don't get it. Why does my profile description read Unsaved Trash? I just joined a little while ago. Why treat new visitors to this forum with so much condescension? We're not bad folks are we?


Say what, did you vote for Donald Trump? I think he's a funny clown.

Here is a really good thread about unSave Trash

http://www.landoverbaptist.net/showthread.php?p=1227489

You see, people who have not accepted Jesus are hateful people who have no love in their hearts. Once you come to know Jesus you will understand His conditional love for all who would simple follow His every commann to the letter

YIC

[Didymus Much]

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...Why does my profile description read Unsaved Trash? I just joined a little while ago. Why treat new visitors to this forum with so much condescension?...

Why didn't you read the sticky threads that you were specifically directed to in your welcoming e-mail, where all of those questions (and many more) are answered with appropriate Biblical justification?

... We're not bad folks are we?...

The Bible says you are, and you'd know this if you'd bother to read it.

...Say what, did you vote for Donald Trump? I think he's a funny clown.

A spoiled, sexist, racist, delusional, stupid, petulant, senile, tiny-handed lying coward with his finger on a button that could end humanity while the Republicans use him to to stack the Supreme Court in their favour (and prevent any real change or advancement) for the next half-century?

As piffleng hilarious as dead abo jokes.

[Proudspankedwife]

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Well dear, that sounds like a question your husband can answer. Besides, the menfolk here aren't too keen on looking after other men's wives. I'm pretty sure no one will have read the entire post, as they tend to become distracted when they see a woman has more than about ten or twenty words to say, and none of these words include the phrase, "dinner is ready."


Now, having said that, I'm thrilled to see someone taking the Holy Bible seriously! I look forward to your contributions elsewhere on our delightful forum!

Thank you! I am really learning a lot here, and my husband is encouraged to read the posts on the forums regarding discipline . He hopes that we will learn from this site for years to come. God bless Landover Baptist !

[BrotherLarry]

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I’m new to this site, but my heart leaps for joy that I have found you! Husband and I believe in domestic discipline , but cannot find a church that accepts the truth that it is the way of the Lord. Any advice for us?

I know very little about you since your posts after the one above were just way too lengthy for me to waste time on. I do hope you are a subservient, caring wife for your husband (the lord of your home) and that you don't speak as much as your posts would imply.


I am a young, intelligent, well-built and educated fellow, with a kind heart, amazing body, incredible career, and a bright future serving Christ in youth ministries here in godless NY City. I tend to lean toward young boys as the focus of my ministry since they are (A) more important than females and ( just so much fun to play with at camp and during church events. I am being considered to take a role as Youth Minister here once I obtain my Divinity degree. I learned my new college won't accept any of the credits from my former school but they have put me on an accelerated program so I will complete the program more quickly. I also don't have to pay for grading like I did at my former school, nor do I have to pay the instructors' salaries. (I am also quite wealthy, which I forgot to mention. My former lawyer left me quite a sum when he was killed by savages not terribly long ago)


Welcome to our loving and friendly sharing space on the interwebs. Our goal is to help you serve Christ just as He wants you to. All this is pointed out in the Holy Bible. You should read that book when you aren't cooking, cleaning, and providing loving support to your spouse.


Christ is coming SOON!
BrotherLarry (Rev. 22:12)