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  • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

    Originally posted by James Hutchins View Post
    My dear, as you may be aware, I am a True Christian™ and have been since I was 11. As such, I have followed Gods inerrant Word of Faith® and he has entrusted me with many, many children. My wife, Mrs. Hutchins has a child nearly ever ten or so months and has done so since our nuptials. May of our children have married since. However, there are still a few left. All of my sons are pure of heart, hard workers and successful. Every single one graduated home schooling with the highest of honors. All have been earning their keep since the age of four with most breaking into the six figure bracket by the age of 14.
    Ralph here has been reading your thread and is interested in you. He is 17 and will be 18 on 12/24. He is the general partner of the Hutchins Country Store, LLC. This business is the sole supplier to over 10,000 acres of prime Shenandoah farm land and has well over 200 very loyal customers who spend an average of $300 a week each at the store. At a 40% margin, Ralph clears (in cash) $2,400 a week. Ralph expanded the store in just a few years to include an entertainment and Bible supply line as well as an internal gift shop where disadvantaged children create trinkets for retail sale at gift shops all along the Blue Ridge Parkway (the proceeds donated to God, of course).

    Here is Ralph. I wanted him to wear a suit but he did not want to put on airs. He has my eyes!

    Hmm, Ralph seems to of a good sort. Might you ask if he would be able to say the lyrics of the song I linked, and Sister Mary posted for all to see, with complete honesty? Would he support my writing career? Does he like to read, not just the Bible but other books? What where his favorite classes in school? Would Ralph treat me as Jesus Christ treated the women he meet and knew? I do not just want a True Christian Man but a good, kind man with a good heart.
    Also I am a bit unsure whether having a husband younger then me is a good idea, as many young men not yet 20 have a lack maturity and good sense. Can you tell me a bit more on his personality and how he handles himself in different situations? Is he a young man with good manners and is intelligent?


    Now I am asking these question to better know him, and to see if we are even compatible as a couple. There are times that some men and women are simply not good together, they just don't work. I wish to avoid any problems that might come about because of conflicting personalities and mindsets.

    Originally posted by Mary Etheldreda View Post
    Well dear, you do see Brother Redeemed Papist's point, though, right? As lovely as the lyrics are (and I do think they are), they don't replace Holy Scripture. These lyrics don't even reference Holy Scripture. We can note how lovely the imagery is, but we must not forget that by nature we women are moved by emotions rather than reason. For this reason the LORD has placed in our hearts a desire to be under the authority of our husbands. You might think of it like an instinct, but you must beware of the Godless society today that is teaching girls to fight that instinct, to demand to be treated as if they were really men.

    But we're not. We're women. And that's okay, too.
    Oh I don't want to be a man, I am happy and glad to be a woman. I do desire a husband but one that I am partners with, one that will treat me as a companion not a servant. I have been taught by the Bible, and look to how Jesus treated women. Now could my mindset have been effected by the world I live in? Yes but I focus it through my faith, using the Bible and common sense.
    God is my light and my strength, and I am his sword.

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    • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

      Mary Ethelreda,

      If you would be so kind could you link once again to that site you showed us when you first joined this forum for how a man of True Christianity should discipline his wayward wife for this trollop's education.
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      John 5:46,47 For had ye believed Moses, ye would have believed me: for he wrote of me. But if ye believe not his writings, how shall ye believe my words?

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      • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

        Originally posted by Redeemed Papist View Post
        Mary Ethelreda,

        If you would be so kind could you link once again to that site you showed us when you first joined this forum for how a man of True Christianity should discipline his wayward wife for this trollop's education.
        Please, as I have said I haven't let a man do more then kiss my cheek as such I am not a trollop. More from you and I will simply ignore your posts.
        God is my light and my strength, and I am his sword.

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        • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

          Originally posted by Redeemed Papist View Post
          Mary Ethelreda,

          If you would be so kind could you link once again to that site you showed us when you first joined this forum for how a man of True Christianity should discipline his wayward wife for this trollop's education.
          It is my pleasure.



          Christian Domestic Discipline.

          Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous:
          nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.
          Hebrews 12:11


          Here are some excerpts:

          it was generally thought that a man did have the right of enforcement in his home. Could it perhaps be our culture which has changed, rather than anything to do with Scripture, which causes such an outcry against CDD?

          Which one has changed drastically over time, especially in the last fifty or so years?

          Scripture or culture?

          Of course, a man IS supposed to love his wife as himself, but love does not rule out discipline. In fact, the Bible has only good things to say about discipline.

          Discipline is associated with love:

          As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten...Revelation 3:19a

          He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. Proverbs 13:24

          Discipline is associated with wisdom and understanding:

          The rod and reproof give wisdom... Proverbs 29:15

          ...but a rod is for the back of him that is void of understanding... Proverbs 10:13

          Discipline is associated with peace and righteousness:

          Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous; nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby... Hebrew 12:11

          There is no scripture whatsoever that speaks poorly of discipline, and seeing what good things the Bible tells us come from discipline, it begs the question:

          How can a man say he loves his wife and not discipline her when needed?
          Men and women are different. But we often just gloss over what those most crucial differences are. Yes, men and women are different physically, and also men and women think differently. But what we often fail to recognize is than men and women sin differently. Men have sin struggles that are typical of men and almost alien to women. Likewise, women struggle with sins that men may not even recognize as being sin issues. Here's a bare-bones sketch of the dynamics:

          Women by their peculiar sin nature resist earthly authority and trust.
          Women will seek earthly security at the expense of emotional and/or spiritual security.
          Rebuke and Lash. This is the harshest discipline a husband should administer, and it should always be done privately and with Godly, Biblical love. Usually, exhortation will have already taken place before this method is used, but there may come situations where this is the first step. The rebuke and lashing should be administered with a calm heart. Talk to your wife, let her know you are serious, and tell her why she is to be disciplined physically.
          I can vouch for its Godly mission and its correct association with Holy Scripture, and of course its positive effects in a marriage.

          Hello, my name is Mary. I hope to fellowship with you! That is, unless you don't listen to church authority (Deuteronomy 17:12); are a witch (Exodus 22:17); are a homosexual (Leviticus 20:13; Romans 1:24-32); or fortuneteller (Leviticus 20:27) or a snotty kid who hits their dad (Exodus 21:15); or curses their parents (Proverbs 20:20; Leviticus 20:9); an adulterer (Leviticus 20:10); a non-Christian (Exodus 22:19; Deuteronomy 13:7-12; Deuteronomy 17:2-5;Romans 1:24-32); an atheist (2 Chronicles 15:12-13); or false prophet (Zechariah 13:3); from the town of one who worships another, false god (Deuteronomy 13:13-19); were a non-virgin bride (Deuteronomy 22:20-21); or blasphemer (Leviticus 24:10-16), as God calls for your execution and will no doubt send you to Hell, and I have no interest developing a friendship with the Spiritually Walking Dead.

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          • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

            Originally posted by StarDreamerNight View Post
            Please, as I have said I haven't let a man do more then kiss my cheek as such I am not a trollop. More from you and I will simply ignore your posts.
            Friend,you cannot speak to a Man of God like that.

            And please, check your condescending attitude at the door.

            I blame that evil pop-noise for this, that lady-blah blah will be the downfall of the character of well behaved young women everywhere; incidently, she also has a preference for flannel shirts as I have heard.

            Truly, in these last days, the devil is wondering about as a roaring lion, and convincing young women that they are not to be in submission to their husbands and the devil's servants are the focalpoint of bad taste.
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            Psalm 50:22 Now consider this, ye that forget God, lest I tear you in pieces, and there be none to deliver.
            Deuteronomy32:35 To me belongeth vengeance and recompence; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste.
            Jerimiah 13:14 And I will dash them one against another, even the fathers and the sons together, saith the LORD: I will not pity, nor spare, nor have mercy, but destroy them.
            Numbers 32:23 But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out.
            Leviticus24:14 Bring forth him that hath cursed without the camp; and let all that heard him lay their hands upon his head, and let all the congregation stone him.
            Ephesians5:5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.5:6 Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. 5:7 Be not ye therefore partakers with them.

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            • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

              Well then it is a good thing the only discipline I will need is verbal, more then that will never be needed. Especially since I obey God's Word and will always be honest with my husband, I will also work out any problems that might arise between my husband and myself through discussion and communication.
              God is my light and my strength, and I am his sword.

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              • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                Originally posted by StarDreamerNight View Post
                Well then it is a good thing the only discipline I will need is verbal, more then that will never be needed.
                Not if you "talk back" like you do here, young lady. A good True-Christian(tm) woman only needs to be told one time and one time only.

                A heavy feminine attitude of arrogant self-importance and sense of entitlment does not fly in a True-Christian(tm) marriage.
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                Psalm 50:22 Now consider this, ye that forget God, lest I tear you in pieces, and there be none to deliver.
                Deuteronomy32:35 To me belongeth vengeance and recompence; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste.
                Jerimiah 13:14 And I will dash them one against another, even the fathers and the sons together, saith the LORD: I will not pity, nor spare, nor have mercy, but destroy them.
                Numbers 32:23 But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out.
                Leviticus24:14 Bring forth him that hath cursed without the camp; and let all that heard him lay their hands upon his head, and let all the congregation stone him.
                Ephesians5:5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.5:6 Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. 5:7 Be not ye therefore partakers with them.

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                  [QUOTE=Rev. Edward Clement;916913]A heavy feminine attitude of arrogant self-importance and sense of entitlment.QUOTE]

                  Well then it is a good thing I do not have such.
                  God is my light and my strength, and I am his sword.

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                  • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                    Originally posted by StarDreamerNight View Post
                    I have already said okay, we have moved one. Please pay attention
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                    This is how I see love, marriage, and relationships. If an man cannot do what is said in this song then he is not the man for me, as I will be doing the same. The above is the man I am looking for and I will not accept a man that cannot honestly say the words of this song and mean it.
                    Blatant self-imporatance and a sense of entitlment is fully apparent in your posts, and not just this one, friend.

                    Fully demonstrated in how you speak to a Man of God(c), you have as of yet, to learn your place, friend.
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                    Psalm 50:22 Now consider this, ye that forget God, lest I tear you in pieces, and there be none to deliver.
                    Deuteronomy32:35 To me belongeth vengeance and recompence; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste.
                    Jerimiah 13:14 And I will dash them one against another, even the fathers and the sons together, saith the LORD: I will not pity, nor spare, nor have mercy, but destroy them.
                    Numbers 32:23 But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out.
                    Leviticus24:14 Bring forth him that hath cursed without the camp; and let all that heard him lay their hands upon his head, and let all the congregation stone him.
                    Ephesians5:5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.5:6 Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. 5:7 Be not ye therefore partakers with them.

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                    • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                      Originally posted by StarDreamerNight View Post
                      Also I hope my husband has a better job then farming as such work does not pay the bills nearly as well as they did.
                      Well, excuse us men.

                      You didn't mention we were applying to marry a whore.

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                      • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                        Originally posted by Deaner View Post
                        Well, excuse us men.

                        You didn't mention we were applying to marry a whore.

                        Amen Brother Dean. Apparently this little trollip is carry a treasure hunting map, and a shovel in order to be able to gold dig properly, and to get paid for services rendered.

                        That ain't no Godly marriage, that is a business transaction!
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                        Psalm 50:22 Now consider this, ye that forget God, lest I tear you in pieces, and there be none to deliver.
                        Deuteronomy32:35 To me belongeth vengeance and recompence; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste.
                        Jerimiah 13:14 And I will dash them one against another, even the fathers and the sons together, saith the LORD: I will not pity, nor spare, nor have mercy, but destroy them.
                        Numbers 32:23 But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out.
                        Leviticus24:14 Bring forth him that hath cursed without the camp; and let all that heard him lay their hands upon his head, and let all the congregation stone him.
                        Ephesians5:5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.5:6 Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. 5:7 Be not ye therefore partakers with them.

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                        • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                          Originally posted by Deaner View Post
                          Well, excuse us men.

                          You didn't mention we were applying to marry a whore.
                          Sighs, wondering how often I will need to go through this, I am not a whore. No man has known me and no man has ever gotten more the a kiss of the cheek nor has any man given me more then a kiss on the cheek.

                          One cannot be a whore if they obey the Law of Chastity, and I will stay a virgin until I am married.
                          God is my light and my strength, and I am his sword.

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                          • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                            Originally posted by Rev. Edward Clement View Post
                            Amen Brother Dean. Apparently this little trollip is carry a treasure hunting map, and a shovel in order to be able to gold dig properly, and to get paid for services rendered.

                            That ain't no Godly marriage, that is a business transaction!
                            Financial problems are the number one reason for conflict in marriage, I simply wish to make sure that my childen and myself can be taken care of. It's common sense.
                            God is my light and my strength, and I am his sword.

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                            • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                              Originally posted by StarDreamerNight View Post
                              Financial problems are the number one reason for conflict in marriage, I simply wish to make sure that my childen and myself can be taken care of. It's common sense.
                              Obviously you have zero faith in Jesus to take care of you in every circumstance.

                              You are very weak in the faith whore. Perhaps you are better suited to the comfort of welfare.

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                              • Re: A Candle in the Darkness

                                Deaner has just made an excellent point. It is not financial problems that are the problem in marriages; the problem is lack of Faith, period.

                                If you tithe, and give Love Offerings the Lord will bless an individual as He promised. Therefore, it does not matter if one is a Farmer or a Lawer. Little becomes much when Jesus is in it.

                                Admit it, you are digging for gold.
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                                Psalm 50:22 Now consider this, ye that forget God, lest I tear you in pieces, and there be none to deliver.
                                Deuteronomy32:35 To me belongeth vengeance and recompence; their foot shall slide in due time: for the day of their calamity is at hand, and the things that shall come upon them make haste.
                                Jerimiah 13:14 And I will dash them one against another, even the fathers and the sons together, saith the LORD: I will not pity, nor spare, nor have mercy, but destroy them.
                                Numbers 32:23 But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out.
                                Leviticus24:14 Bring forth him that hath cursed without the camp; and let all that heard him lay their hands upon his head, and let all the congregation stone him.
                                Ephesians5:5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.5:6 Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. 5:7 Be not ye therefore partakers with them.

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