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  • #2686
    Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

    Originally posted by Curmudgeon View Post
    Since rape is a form of assault, I think it would only be fair to be a little more understanding of the poor girl's hesitation. While the pregnancy puts a ticking clock on the whole situation, it seems like giving her time to recover from the ordeal is an important step. Now, perhaps I missed this, because this is a very lengthy thread and I don't remember all of it, but is everyone certain that the rapist WANTS to marry the girl? Is the rapist a stranger or someone she knows? All of this factors into how one should approach this very delicate situation.
    They should get married as soon as possible! Do you want her poor child to be born a bastard?

    Deuteronomy 23:2 A bastard shall not enter into the congregation of the LORD; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the LORD.

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    • #2687
      Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

      Originally posted by Cranky Old Man View Post
      That is completely irrelevant. The rapist is forced to marry the girl as punishment for the rape. God does not like rapists and put a clear punishment in the Bible. Not only should he marry the girl, but he is never allowed to divorce her as well. God clearly does not take rape lightly!

      Deuteronomy 22:28-29 "If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days."
      How else could the rapist atone for his insult to the girl's father?
      sigpic 1 Chronicles 16:15
      Be ye mindful always of his covenant; the word which he commanded to a thousand generations ... an everlasting covenant.
      Proverbs 30:5,6: Every word of God is pure: he is a shield unto them that put their trust in him.
      Add thou not unto his words, lest he reprove thee, and thou be found a liar.

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      • #2688
        Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

        Originally posted by Curmudgeon View Post
        Since rape is a form of assault, I think it would only be fair to be a little more understanding of the poor girl's hesitation. While the pregnancy puts a ticking clock on the whole situation, it seems like giving her time to recover from the ordeal is an important step. Now, perhaps I missed this, because this is a very lengthy thread and I don't remember all of it, but is everyone certain that the rapist WANTS to marry the girl? Is the rapist a stranger or someone she knows? All of this factors into how one should approach this very delicate situation.
        No, it doesn't. The only "factors" to consider are God's commandments. Go back and read this thread from the first post.
        Who Will Jesus Damn?

        Here is a partial list from just a few scripture verses:

        Hypocrites (Matthew 24:51), The Unforgiving (Mark 11:26), Homosexuals (Romans 1:26, 27), Fornicators (Romans 1:29), The Wicked (Romans 1:29), The Covetous (Romans 1:29), The Malicious (Romans 1:29), The Envious (Romans 1:29), Murderers (Romans 1:29), The Deceitful (Romans 1:29), Backbiters (Romans 1:30), Haters of God (Romans 1:30), The Despiteful (Romans 1:30), The Proud (Romans 1:30), Boasters (Romans 1:30), Inventors of evil (Romans 1:30), Disobedient to parents (Romans 1:30), Covenant breakers (Romans 1:31), The Unmerciful (Romans 1:31), The Implacable (Romans 1:31), The Unrighteous (1Corinthians 6:9), Idolaters (1Corinthians 6:9), Adulterers (1Corinthians 6:9), The Effeminate (1Corinthians 6:9), Thieves (1Corinthians 6:10), Drunkards (1Corinthians 6:10), Reviler (1Corinthians 6:10), Extortioners (1Corinthians 6:10), The Fearful (Revelation 21:8), The Unbelieving (Revelation 21:8), The Abominable (Revelation 21:8), Whoremongers (Revelation 21:8), Sorcerers (Revelation 21:8), All Liars (Revelation 21:8)

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        • #2689
          Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

          Originally posted by Benedict A. Davis View Post
          How else could the rapist atone for his insult to the girl's father?
          I understand what you all are saying. I know that they will have to get married. The original poster was inquiring specifically on how to approach the situation in the most effective manner. Therefore while such circumstances as the willingness of both parties and their prior relationship may be irrelevant to the eventual outcome, it will definitely be important when deciding how to best approach rectifying the delicate situation.

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          • #2690
            Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

            Originally posted by Pastor Ezekiel View Post
            No, it doesn't. The only "factors" to consider are God's commandments. Go back and read this thread from the first post.
            To you specifically, Pastor Ezekiel, I apologize that my post went as far as to warrant me negative reputation. I did not intend to come across as a "feminazi" or even a run-of-the-mill feminist. I was merely addressing the OP's question about whether he should be more subtle or upfront in his conversation with the reluctant girl. And, like I said, the more effective method will depend on the specifics of the situation.

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            • #2691
              Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

              So you people have been arguing over this for two years? Unbelievable.

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              • #2692
                Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                Originally posted by Brother_Percy View Post
                Friends,

                I recently received a letter from a concerned parent. In the letter she told me that her daughter had been raped, but was refusing to marry her rapist as per Deuteronomy 22:28-29. The stupid girl actually wants to press charges on the man!

                Not only that, but that she also plans to kill the poor unborn baby her rapist had given her! Sickening! Have young people today got NO morals?

                Any and all advice on what I can say to convince this girl to do the right thing would be great. Should I start with the basics ?

                "Whore, you'll burn in Hell for all eternity - unless you marry your rapist"??

                Or should I go for a more subtle approach??

                Scripture:

                Deuteronomy 22:28-29 (King James Version)

                If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.

                Press charges against the rapist and abort the pregnancy. Anyone else who thinks different is stupid!!!

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                • #2693
                  Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                  Originally posted by JordanRHughes View Post
                  Press charges against the rapist and abort the pregnancy. Anyone else who thinks different is stupid!!!

                  You come to a good Christian Forum and advocate ABORTION, what has that unborn child ever do to you BABY KILLER!
                  sigpic 1 Chronicles 16:15
                  Be ye mindful always of his covenant; the word which he commanded to a thousand generations ... an everlasting covenant.
                  Proverbs 30:5,6: Every word of God is pure: he is a shield unto them that put their trust in him.
                  Add thou not unto his words, lest he reprove thee, and thou be found a liar.

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                  • #2694
                    Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                    Originally posted by Free Thinker View Post
                    So you people have been arguing over this for two years? Unbelievable.
                    Yet you just joined the discussion!
                    5 Reasons why GOD HATES WOMEN!
                    To most "Christians" The Bible is like a license agreement. They just scroll to the bottom and click "I agree". All those "Christians" will burn in Hell!
                    James 2:10 "For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all."

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                    • #2695
                      Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                      Originally posted by Free Thinker View Post
                      So you people have been arguing over this for two years? Unbelievable.
                      The only ones arguing are those who can't (or refuse to) see what's actually what's actually written in the KJV1611.

                      You should be commending the True Christians™ here for their patience.

                      So, "Free" Thinker, how about an intro thread? (It is the polite thing to do)

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                      • #2696
                        Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                        Originally posted by Cranky Old Man View Post
                        Yet you just joined the discussion!
                        True.


                        Originally posted by Didymus Much View Post

                        So, "Free" Thinker, how about an intro thread? (It is the polite thing to do)
                        What do you want to know? My background and such?

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                        • #2697
                          Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                          Originally posted by Free Thinker View Post
                          True.




                          What do you want to know? My background and such?
                          Noobs read this.

                          Your rights are listed here.

                          Make an Introduction for yourself.
                          sigpic 1 Chronicles 16:15
                          Be ye mindful always of his covenant; the word which he commanded to a thousand generations ... an everlasting covenant.
                          Proverbs 30:5,6: Every word of God is pure: he is a shield unto them that put their trust in him.
                          Add thou not unto his words, lest he reprove thee, and thou be found a liar.

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                          • #2698
                            Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                            Well Obviously None of you have been held down and had a penis forced into one of your orfices, or maybe you should then we would see how much you would want to marry your rapist. I really hope when one of you gets caught "fornicating" with your cousins/children/goats that if the law smight you it not be by marrying your kin but (that's more of a punishment for the rest of us) but that you may go to a prision in the south where the inmates with children dont look so kindly on small minded men like you that perpetuate intolerance in our world. I DO NOT thank you for serving the devil in this way.

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                            • #2699
                              Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                              Originally posted by TrulySavedFromEvil View Post
                              Well Obviously None of you have been held down and had a penis forced into one of your orfices, or maybe you should then we would see how much you would want to marry your rapist. I really hope when one of you gets caught "fornicating" with your cousins/children/goats that if the law smight you it not be by marrying your kin but (that's more of a punishment for the rest of us) but that you may go to a prision in the south where the inmates with children dont look so kindly on small minded men like you that perpetuate intolerance in our world. I DO NOT thank you for serving the devil in this way.
                              Oh dear, that's not much of a formal introduction. You seem very angry about something ... who hurt you? Don't you know that JESUS loves you?
                              True Christians are Perfect!

                              Signs that you belong to a FALSE Christian Church.

                              Persecution You Have Endured for CHRIST: what doesn't kill you makes you stronger in Christ.

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                              • #2700
                                Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

                                What angers me is that people who call themselves christians embrace ignorance and fear instead of the love of jesus. Jesus wouldnt rape anyone or make HIS daughter marry her rapist, and if he would then I wouldnt want to be one of his children :S

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