[TheTrooper]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

there is a difference between tough love and going to far. have you ever thought about just sitting down and talking to her? maybe you will learn the reason she is acting this way and the both of you could work out all her problems.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

there is a difference between tough love and going to far. have you ever thought about just sitting down and talking to her? maybe you will learn the reason she is acting this way and the both of you could work out all her problems

Don't be silly. Since when are problems with girls solved by talking to them? Before you know it they will start talking back. It's a woman's place to serve her husband and you have to learn your daughters that from the day they are born.

1 Timothy 2:11-12 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

[TheTrooper]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

Don't be silly. Since when are problems with girls solved by talking to them? Before you know it they will start talking back. It's a woman's place to serve her husband and you have to learn your daughters that from the day they are born.

1 Timothy 2:11-12 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

that is complete horse shit. when you have a problem, how do you deal with it?

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

that is complete horse shit. when you have a problem, how do you deal with it?

I fix the problem. What would you do?

[TheTrooper]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

I fix the problem. What would you do?

You never speak with someone about it? you've never shared your feelings with someone? i find that very hard to believe.

[GOD=life]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

You never speak with someone about it?

Of course he does. God is a good listener.

You should try it.

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

You never speak with someone about it? you've never shared your feelings with someone? i find that very hard to believe.

But of course I do. If I have a problem with one of my children I will discuss these with other fathers or, when he was still alive, my own father to find a solution. Often the solution will be in the Holy Bible. It's an amazing book. But talking with girls is never a good idea. Tough love is what works best for raising girls.

[TheTrooper]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

But of course I do. If I have a problem with one of my children I will discuss these with other fathers or, when he was still alive, my own father to find a solution. Often the solution will be in the Holy Bible. It's an amazing book. But talking with girls is never a good idea. Tough love is what works best for raising girls.

why isn't it a good idea?

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

why isn't it a good idea?

Because they might talk back. Woman are supposed to obey commands, answer questions and beyond that be quiet.

1 Timothy 2:11-12 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

[True Disciple]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

---An impressive amount of intolerant, hateful ramblings---

If you want your daughter to hate you for the rest of her life, then follow through with this. =]

Miss Trooper, you came here to this thread to tell Brother Lucas that everything would be alright if he gave his daughter more freedom. To prove your point, you presented yourself: "Here I am, look at me, it worked for me too. If you give your daughter more freedom, she will turn out right, just like me."
Then you continue to spout all kinds of blasphemies against God and hatred against the Holy Bible, insulting True Christians™ repeatedly, admitting to listen heavy metal (even including it in your avatar), and behaving in every respect like the hateful, feminazi, disobedient, God-hating gothtard Brother Lucas fears his daughter will become.
In short, you have done everything you could possibly do to prove our point: A disobedient daughter needs to be spanked and beaten until she is willing to behave, because if you give her more freedom, she will end up to be just like you. Thanks for proving our point.

[Caboose]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

I disagree... i was a goth, heavy metal music. partying. mosh pits (trooper will know)

I now have a house, a morgage, a child, a wife. i'm 2 months away from completeing my masters in Herpetology.

And i am a non-believer.

I came around by my own accord. Talking should be the first step. Atleast.

Over dinner, sit down watch a movie with her. responsibility, if she keeps her room tidy, or does the washing up, allow her to have her computer back.

She will resent you if you start forcing things upon her. Shes young. Shes not decided what she wants to do with herself, shes discovering new things.

Dont push her away by trying to make her conform to your ideals. She will resent you. Just like i resent my mother. I dont talk to her any more, havent in 6 years. Dont make the same mistakes my mother did....

[James Hutchins]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

Spare the rod, spoil the child..... now where have I heard that before? (Here is a hint - KJV1611 Bible )


My daughters, the moment they misbehaved as children, got a switching followed by time in the female prayer closet. All of my girls kept their mouths shut and behaved by the time they were two. One does limp slightly as I got a bit over zealous, I'll admit, but I was a new parent (only my fourth kid) and it was excused by the Pastor.
My girls behave. They toe the line. They do their chores and than God every day they are alive.

YIC
JH

[Caboose]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

Spare the rod, spoil the child..... now where have I heard that before? (Here is a hint - KJV1611 Bible )


My daughters, the moment they misbehaved as children, got a switching followed by time in the female prayer closet. All of my girls kept their mouths shut and behaved by the time they were two. One does limp slightly as I got a bit over zealous, I'll admit, but I was a new parent (only my fourth kid) and it was excused by the Pastor.
My girls behave. They toe the line. They do their chores and than God every day they are alive.

YIC
JH

Well i'd call that domestic abuse. beating a child under 2 years old?! No matter where in the world your from or what you beleive... Thats barbaric...

But hey, just my opinion... cant give me an infraction for voicing an opinion, after all... im a bloke and its my right, freedom of speech an all...

[James Hutchins]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

Well i'd call that domestic abuse. beating a child under 2 years old?! No matter where in the world your from or what you beleive... Thats barbaric...

But hey, just my opinion... cant give me an infraction for voicing an opinion, after all... im a bloke and its my right, freedom of speech an all...

You came here asking questions for your 'paper'. I answered them and then you state your opinion (which is of no importance)? I thought you were doing research?

When I was in school, and doing research, when I had a result, I simply noted it and moved on. Interesting

[Caboose]

Re: Problems with my daughter...I need advice.

You came here asking questions for your 'paper'. I answered them and then you state your opinion (which is of no importance)? I thought you were doing research?

When I was in school, and doing research, when I had a result, I simply noted it and moved on. Interesting

Its an ongoing project, this is my first visit back in like 3 days. i have a 2 year old daughter. i feel strongly about that subject