[MoonFlower]

Re: just curious

I think I have the perfect match for you. There's this one member named Lunar Seed...talk to him. I think both of you are perfect for one another.

Moon

[kikirnw]

Re: just curious

I think I have the perfect match for you. There's this one member named Lunar Seed...talk to him. I think both of you are perfect for one another.

Moon

Why is that?

[Sista Lateefah]

Re: just curious

i have not been married but i was with his father for 5 1/2yrs,and i left because i got tired of being seen as just a mother and housekeeper,i am much more than that...........and the only time i will be submissive is in the bedroom.....so please let me know what you think...i don't get offended easly so speak the truth as i respect the turth....

Oh, you poor ignant chile. It look like you done had a very good thang goin', and you had ruined it by gettin' uppity with that poor man. Other than the fact that he had had relations with you out of marriage, it seem like he a very Godly mens and would have been ripe for accepting Christ into his heart. You axed for the truth, so let's see what the Bible say about the mens and the womens and the role each one of them play:

Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church. - 1 Corinthians 14:34-35

Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. - 1 Timothy 2:11-14

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. - Ephesians 5:22-24

So you see, this man was actually acting right in his behavior towards you, and you was the one that had been in the wrong by gettin' uppity with him. And this be the problem with so many womens in our society today, that they think they can get by "on they own", when they actually act like little lost puppies when they does not have a mens to guide them. Women's rights groups (feminazis) actually does not want to help womens, but to create a stumbling block for them. The Bible already tells us the rights a woman is allowed to have - those that her husband decide she can have. Praise JESUS!

Now, there may still be time to fix this situation. I would encourage you to go find yo baby daddy and bring him to Landover, because like I had said earlier, it seem like this man was just ripe for the LORD'S grace! And of course, after he get Saved©, he can takes the necessary measures to getchoo Saved©, then y'all can get married and be in good standing with the Lord! If you can't find him, then you can find a True Christian™ man on here to marry, though you would probably need to get Saved© first.

Yes,english is and all ways has been my laguage, but seeing how i'm a single mother even if i did ever to decide that i wanted to join your Church the money i do have or make goes towards what my son needs.As far as submitting myself to a man, i did that once ( my son's father) he treated me like i was nothing and it almost killed me inside,i won't do it again....If i choose to be saved than the Lord will be the only one i submit to......i guess you could say i'm a spectator but all one has to do is ask me to leave and you'll never hear from me again....

First of all, about this money thing... don't you think your chile would be happy to get by with a little less food if it mean Jesus can have a bit more glurry? I'm sure your chile would understand, and the LORD bless those who bring they blessings to Him. About this dying inside you had mentioned, the Bible actually say something about this:

I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. - Galations 2:20

I protest by your rejoicing which I have in Christ Jesus our Lord, I die daily. - I Corinthians 15:31

And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. - Galations 5:24

You said that you had almost died on the inside and you din't wanna do that again, but I's afraid the Bible make it quite clear you gonna have to do that if you wantsa get Saved©. Ain't nobody ever said that servin' the LORD was always gonna be fun, but it be best to get them hardships over with now than to deal with them for eternity in Hell! And for that last part you had said, you said you was gonna only submit to the Lord. Well, that's perfectly fine, but as I had already covered, the LORD command the womens to submit to the mens, so if you is gonna submit to the Lord, you is gonna have to submit to the mens as well.

Before i am able to answer that i have some questions for you. First do true christian men beat their women,or kids? Do they treat woman like their nothing? I can't walk blindly into a faith unless i know these facts because i don't see this as love or good.

As long as the womens and the chillrens act right, they don't have nothin' to worry about. Just make sure you and yo chile always act right and you won't ever even have to find out about that.

[kikirnw]

Re: just curious

As long as the womens and the chillrens act right, they don't have nothin' to worry about. Just make sure you and yo chile always act right and you won't ever even have to find out about that.

In saying this do you mean that they have a right to beat them? I can not and will not beleive in a faith that thinks it is ok to beat and hurt anyone for whatever reason. I beleive in talking and comprise and i'm a very open minded person but love is not about hurting someone, if you love a person shouldn't you love them faults and all?

[Pastor Isaac Peters]

Re: just curious

In saying this do you mean that they have a right to beat them? I can not and will not beleive in a faith that thinks it is ok to beat and hurt anyone for whatever reason. I beleive in talking and comprise and i'm a very open minded person but love is not about hurting someone, if you love a person shouldn't you love them faults and all?

A right? Actually, more like both a right and a duty:

Prov. 22:15 Foolishness [is] bound in the heart of a child; [but] the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.

Pro 23:13 Withhold not correction from the child: for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

If you love your child, shouldn't you do what the Bible says is right for him and beat him? If I hadn't disciplined my son in the Biblical manner, he might have grown up to be a hellbound hippie atheist rather than the upstanding young man of God he is, and if I let that happen, what kind of love would that be? I have every confidence that he will do the same for my grandson, praise Jesus!

[Bobby-Joe]

Re: just curious

In saying this do you mean that they have a right to beat them? I can not and will not beleive in a faith that thinks it is ok to beat and hurt anyone for whatever reason. I beleive in talking and comprise and i'm a very open minded person but love is not about hurting someone, if you love a person shouldn't you love them faults and all?

Yes we should still love people, even if they are disgusting, repulsive sinners who wallow in vice like a pig in filth friend. However there is a reckoning for wrongs done to other from God, who is after all justice personified. It better to take the path of tough love and correct a wayward child than to let the child grow up, injure another (like Jesus) in the child's wickedness and leave it God to apply perfect justice to the child. Remember God loves the injured as well as the injurer and burns inflicted by man will heal but not those inflected by God.

[Virginia Day Templeton]

Re: just curious

Love? Who ever said marriage was about love? It's about making soldiers for Jesus, and HIS love is the only one that will ever matter.

The Bible does not specifically command our husbands to beat us, but it does order unruly children to be beaten in order to drive the wickedness from their souls. It even tells us that if we don't do this, we HATE our children. And pray tell, what is the opposite of hate?

Proverbs 13:24
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

It also tells us that unmarried women who have s*x are disgusting whores and should be killed. You're lucky your father is off shacking up with his boyfriend somewhere... because if he'd read God's Word and taken appropriate action, you might be finding out just how serious love can be.

Deuteronomy 22
20But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:

21Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.

[Warrior in Christ]

Re: just curious

Before i am able to answer that i have some questions for you. First do true christian men beat their women,or kids? Do they treat woman like their nothing? I can't walk blindly into a faith unless i know these facts because i don't see this as love or good.

I must know, were you married when you when had your child? If you weren't you may have damned him to hell already:

"A bastard shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord: even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the Lord" (Deuteronomy 23:2).

If this be the case your carelessness and apathy are causing your child to be punished by God, wretch. This is what happens when you don't think of the consequences before taking part in evil actions.

[kikirnw]

Re: just curious

My son is a very caring 6 year old boy, he cares deeply for friends,his family and even strangers he has never met. He cries for those less fortunate than ourselves and to sad songs but he is also very tough he beleives in protecting those who can not protect themselves but will only fight if he has no other choice.I know in my heart he will grow to be a good man. As far as my ex being a good man goes,he was anything but. I don't see a good man being verably or physical abusive.Nor do i see him not helping pay the bills,or even helping out around the house when i'm out working as well, and while i was faithful to him he was out sleeping with other woman.

[Pastor Isaac Peters]

Re: just curious

My son is a very caring 6 year old boy, he cares deeply for friends,his family and even strangers he has never met. He cries for those less fortunate than ourselves and to sad songs but he is also very tough he beleives in protecting those who can not protect themselves but will only fight if he has no other choice.I know in my heart he will grow to be a good man. As far as my ex being a good man goes,he was anything but. I don't see a good man being verably or physical abusive.Nor do i see him not helping pay the bills,or even helping out around the house when i'm out working as well, and while i was faithful to him he was out sleeping with other woman.

I guess you don't love your son enough to get him into an ex-homosexual ministry. Even if he doesn't turn into a full-fledged sodomite, a boy who cries to sad songs is on his way to growing up into a man who cries at chick flicks, and we know what the Bible has to say about that:

I Corinthians 6:9-10: Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

[kikirnw]

Re: just curious

I guess you don't love your son enough to get him into an ex-homosexual ministry. Even if he doesn't turn into a full-fledged sodomite, a boy who cries to sad songs is on his way to growing up into a man who cries at chick flicks, and we know what the Bible has to say about that:

I Corinthians 6:9-10: Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

I don't beleive my son is a homo but if he turns out to be,then i will still love him for he is my son.I give my son unconditional love,meaning i will love him for who is.

[Star Finder]

Re: just curious

Child,

you are confused and needy. How much money do you make a week. net, after taxes, but before food or rent?

If its less than $500 Landover is not for you. I can however assure you a similar measure of salvation at only $50 /week. A much better deal than the pastors exhort you to pay.

DO NOT DESPAIR! Please PM me for details.

SF

[Sista Lateefah]

Re: just curious

I don't beleive my son is a homo but if he turns out to be,then i will still love him for he is my son.I give my son unconditional love,meaning i will love him for who is.

A loving parent do not accept a chile's sinful habits, because that would mean they would want to see they chile in Hell. If you wantsa see your chile in Hell, you obviously does not love him as you claims.

[kikirnw]

Re: just curious

A loving parent do not accept a chile's sinful habits, because that would mean they would want to see they chile in Hell. If you wantsa see your chile in Hell, you obviously does not love him as you claims.

I love my son very much.I would die for him if i had to. I would gladly give up my life so my son could live.

[Pastor Isaac Peters]

Re: just curious

A loving parent do not accept a chile's sinful habits, because that would mean they would want to see they chile in Hell. If you wantsa see your chile in Hell, you obviously does not love him as you claims.

Excellent point, Sister. In fact, accepting someone else's sinful habits can get you both damned:

Ezekiel 33:8-9: When I say unto the wicked, O wicked [man], thou shalt surely die; if thou dost not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked [man] shall die in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at thine hand. Nevertheless, if thou warn the wicked of his way to turn from it; if he do not turn from his way, he shall die in his iniquity; but thou hast delivered thy soul.