[KobraKid]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

The term is bitter against them. This is a King James forum.

Colossians 3:18-19 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter* against them.

*
πικραίνω
2) to embitter. exasperate
a) render angry, indignant
b) to be embittered, irritated
c) to visit with bitterness, to grieve (deal bitterly with)

We don't make our wives bitter. They know their places.



At least you understand that there are people God hates. You're one step ahead of most of the unsaved we get here.

I see... My fiancée doesn't know her place then... If I may ask, how would I show her, her place?

[wait_what]

Re: Discipline Of The Wife

I see... My fiancée doesn't know her place then... If I may ask, how would I show her, her place?

We have given you scriptural direction. If you really need to know more, I suggest taking the scripture to your local Baptist minister, or sending a PM to a Pastor/Minister here.


If you want a woman's perspective, might I suggest Talitha (she is a Deaconess), or BelieverInGod?

[Pastor William Nathaniel Sampson]

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No. I just hate to see her cry.
Our emotional bond is strong. We undstand eachother's feelings.
When she cries, I cry. When she laughs, I laugh.
That's just how it goes.
My mom raised me to respect women. And, I do. I have nothing but respect for women.
Doesn't the Bible talk allot about Love?

It never speaks of a girlie crying romantic love. That is a late invention. The love the Bible most often speaks (agape) of is an uneven love. The love between a deity and His creations. We are to love and fear Him despite what He might do to punish us. No matter what, He demands our love first and foremost.

[~Love~]

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Beating your wife does not show love. Hurting anyone actually is the opposite of love. And God teaches that husbands should love their wives and to put their wife's life before his own.

A woman is not a man's property.

[Alphonse Alban]

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Beating your wife does not show love. Hurting anyone actually is the opposite of love. And God teaches that husbands should love their wives and to put their wife's life before his own.

A woman is not a man's property.

You father would have beaten some sense in to you if he would have loved you.
I hope your husband will do this in the future as it is clear that you were raised without love.

[~Love~]

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You father would have beaten some sense in to you if he would have loved you.
I hope your husband will do this in the future as it is clear that you were raised without love.

That acutally made me laugh. No, my husband would love and respect me, as God would want him to. And besides, if any man were to lay a hand on me, I would retaliate. I've had a LOT of love in my life and am confident enough to say this on a message board that is full of misogynists.

[Alphonse Alban]

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That acutally made me laugh. No, my husband would love and respect me, as God would want him to. And besides, if any man were to lay a hand on me, I would retaliate. I've had a LOT of love in my life and am confident enough to say this on a message board that is full of misogynists.

You are just of weaker sex. Try to fight it, but that's just how it is. Just as God intended.

[~Love~]

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21 "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." Meaning to put each other first. No one has authority over the other.

[bobnorton37]

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I feel the same way about my husband!

[wait_what]

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21 "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." Meaning to put each other first. No one has authority over the other.

1 Corinthians 11:3

But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

1 Corinthians 11:8-9

8 For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.

9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

Ephesians 5:22

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.


Care to back your crazy ideas up with scripture?

[Alphonse Alban]

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21 "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." Meaning to put each other first. No one has authority over the other.

Stop talking nonsense and start reading the Bible.

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

You maybe saved yet.

[Seth Campbell]

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That acutally made me laugh. No, my husband would love and respect me, as God would want him to. And besides, if any man were to lay a hand on me, I would retaliate. I've had a LOT of love in my life and am confident enough to say this on a message board that is full of misogynists.

Yet you have no respect for anyone else. You come waltzing into our board which clearly says "unsaved unwelcome" then into the mens section to tell us about things that you don't understand. You're not even married!

Maybe after ten years of marriage, you'll understand your position in life, but until then, I think you should work on your skills as a housekeeper, not a mouthpiece.

[Amelia Gab]

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Hello there,

I´m just curious about something, what if the wife loves to be beatten?? That´s my case, I love my husband to hit me, harder and good, I can really reach an orgasm very fast with the pain, and the belt is my favourite. But he doesn´t enjoy it, in fact the only reason he does it is to please me.

Maybe I should have married one of you guys!

[Pastor Ezekiel]

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Hello there,

I´m just curious about something, what if the wife loves to be beatten?? That´s my case, I love my husband to hit me, harder and good, I can really reach an orgasm very fast with the pain, and the belt is my favourite. But he doesn´t enjoy it, in fact the only reason he does it is to please me.

Maybe I should have married one of you guys!

Ma'am, this is the MEN's ONLY forum. You're in the wrong place.

Please make a thread of your own in the "Introductions" section of the forum, so that we can properly greet you. Tell us about yourself, your church, and how you came to find Jesus.

And if you're here to flame us, better take a look at THIS before making an even bigger ass out of yourself.

And if you need private counseling, click on the link in my signature. Discretion assured, pics a plus.

[Liam the ex-drunk]

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This truly is an inspirational thread, so many wise words. Alas too late for me.

You may have read that my harlot of a wife strayed from my home and my love to seek out another. I know this was because of weakness on my part. If I had paid more attention and read the wise words within this thread then I might have been able to discipline her properly and therefore stop her from straying.

I have received letters from her asking me to 'take her back'. However, I now realise that to do this I need to show her discipline. I have purchased a rosewood cane (no thicker than my little finger), but before I make the next move I would like some advice, should I forgive her for her sin? what should I do with the homer soccer player whom she has knowledge of? Should I go to his club and confront him, or is all this sin down to my wife and my lack of discipline?