[Irinka the repentant jewess]

Re: Hello Brothers

Nice to meet you, Dipper Dude! It is good to hear from someone who knows the Lord and walks closely to Him in obedience and humility. Philippians 2:5-8.

[Basilissa]

Re: Hello Brothers

My dad instructed me, "have one for mom, one for dad, and one for America." Sound advice, I think. But I would like to have more.

But, how can you follow this advice - how can control how many kids you will have? You are not using some of these devilish things that defy God's will?!? Or is your wife so hideous that you approached her only three times during nine years of marriage?

[James Hutchins]

Re: Hello Brothers

I met my wife through church. Not sure I can afford any more than three. Its tight already. Probably have 2 more but it will be tough financially.

Friend, someone is pulling the wool over your eyes. You do not have to buy children. God gives them.
All you have to do is make sure they learn that Jesus is the only God and Baptisit is the only religion and that if they fail to follow the Bible they will burn in Hell for all eternity.

[Dipper Dude]

Re: Hello Brothers

Honored to be made a member of this Christian men's group. I'm no pastor. I can't quote Bible verses all the time. I'm not that smart. I read The Bible every day but i can't remember all the numbers for the verses. I'm just a dumb oilie. But I believe in what you believe. The importance of family. Having white babies. The danger of homosexuality to our families. The need for wives to be in the home. Been reading though the posts here. I'll get used to typing nigra instead of the alternative. Will take some practice though.

[Basilissa]

Re: Hello Brothers

Honored to be made a member of this Christian men's group. I'm no pastor. I can't quote Bible verses all the time. I'm not that smart. I read The Bible every day but i can't remember all the numbers for the verses. I'm just a dumb oilie. But I believe in what you believe. The importance of family. Having white babies. The danger of homosexuality to our families. The need for wives to be in the home. Been reading though the posts here. I'll get used to typing nigra instead of the alternative. Will take some practice though.

Dear Mr. Dude,

Could you please answer the question that I asked you in my previous post:

how can you follow this advice - how can control how many kids you will have? You are not using some of these devilish things that defy God's will?!? Or is your wife so hideous that you approached her only three times during nine years of marriage?

[Dipper Dude]

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Yes sir, I will answer your question. I have spaced out our kids so its 1 every 3 years or so. Managing your wife's fertility is part of being a smart man. We'll probably have 2 more. I don't want to be 45 with a newborn. That would suck. Yes, we use birth control, if that is where your question leads. I don't think there is anything sinful about regulating your wife's reproduction. And my wife is not hideous.

[James Hutchins]

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Idle hands are the devils workshop. All that free time between having babies will lead to trouble. A female, having limited mental capacity, behave much like a simple barnyard animal, a cow is a good example. They want to be milked, that want to have calf's, they want to chew their cud. They are not happy and will get into trouble if those basic needs are not met.
My wife, Mrs. Hutchins, is with child at least once every eleven month, has been since we married a touch over 36 years ago. She gets to have her kitchen and finds terrific fulfillment in feeding me and our 40+ children. Her hobbies are filling the barn with hay, milking the cows, slopping the pigs and doing the butchering as well as keeping the house spotless.
You have to give to your wife friend, giver her what she needs. It is your obligation as a husband.

[Cranky Old Man]

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We'll probably have 2 more. I don't want to be 45 with a newborn. That would suck.

Your problem is that you are too nice for your wife. It happens. Just make sure she does 100% of all the child related work and you will no longer care about how many children you have. That will work.

[Herbert_Greene]

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A fellow Oklahoman!

God Bless you! A Good Christian man!!!

[Basilissa]

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Yes sir, I will answer your question.

Ehem, "Miss" would be somewhat more appropriate

Yes, we use birth control, if that is where your question leads. I don't think there is anything sinful about regulating your wife's reproduction. And my wife is not hideous.

Ehem, that is not Jesus' position on birth control:

New Report: Birth Control Pill Makes Women Hate Men
Book: Birth Control Is Sinful in the Christian Marriages and Also Robbing God of Priesthood Children
Welcome to Stop Birth Control Abuse
The Truth About Birth Control: What Liberals Won't Tell You (Be careful with this last link, as it is posted in the women' section of the forum and it contains details that may disturb you).

This is the only birth control method allowed here at Landover Baptist Church:
Affordable Birth Control for Unmarried Women (Note that it is for unmarried women; married ones cannot use any method).

I feel so sad that you are depriving your wife from giving birth to little Soldiers of Christ. In nine years of marriage, she could have easily produced between 8-16 sons. I hope that now you will stop allowing your wife kill her unborn babies!

[James Hutchins]

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Yes sir, I will answer your question. I have spaced out our kids so its 1 every 3 years or so. Managing your wife's fertility is part of being a smart man. We'll probably have 2 more. I don't want to be 45 with a newborn. That would suck. Yes, we use birth control, if that is where your question leads. I don't think there is anything sinful about regulating your wife's reproduction. And my wife is not hideous.

I am shocked!

What possible right do you think you have to 'play God'!!! You should be having relations with your wife at all times to generate sons. If God chooses to not make your wife with child, that is up to Him. As much as it is a foul and disgusting act, I am with my wife every night she is not with child. She does get 30 days after the joyous birth to rest the night through without me having to 'do my act of affection'. We have been blessed with 40 or so children though she is getting, as they say, 'long in the tooth' these days and I imagine only has another five to ten years of value left.
Every month your wife is not with child, is a month you and her kill one of Gods innocent little babies. That is so cruel!

[Basilissa]

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I am shocked!

What possible right do you think you have to 'play God'!!! You should be having relations with your wife at all times to generate sons. If God chooses to not make your wife with child, that is up to Him. As much as it is a foul and disgusting act, I am with my wife every night she is not with child. She does get 30 days after the joyous birth to rest the night through without me having to 'do my act of affection'. We have been blessed with 40 or so children though she is getting, as they say, 'long in the tooth' these days and I imagine only has another five to ten years of value left.

You are such a wonderful husband, Mr. Hutchins! Your wife must be so thankful!

Every month your wife is not with child, is a month you and her kill one of Gods innocent little babies. That is so cruel!

Exactly Jesus weeps as all of these unborn babies go straight to Hell!

[Pastor Ed Lowman]

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Nice to find this forum. I am a white Christian man from the OKC metro area. Ephesians 5, 22. I am a member of the Church of Christ in Richland, OK. Married for 9 years, Have 3 kids. I am the head of household. I maintain daily discipline in the home. Only a few other members of my church practice Biblical discipline in the home. Too many of the wives are working outside the home now. I would be honored to be a part of this Christian male community.

Welcome, Dipper Dude.

It always relaxes me when another white Christian man of God becomes a part of the board.

Regards,

Pastor Ed

[Mary Thompson]

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Yes sir, I will answer your question. I have spaced out our kids so its 1 every 3 years or so. Managing your wife's fertility is part of being a smart man. We'll probably have 2 more. I don't want to be 45 with a newborn. That would suck. Yes, we use birth control, if that is where your question leads. I don't think there is anything sinful about regulating your wife's reproduction. And my wife is not hideous.

Birth control is wrong on so many levels, God wants you to have kids (Genesis 1:22)! And it is a commandment not to kill (Exodus 20:13)!

[Brother Hezekiah]

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I don't think there is anything sinful about regulating your wife's reproduction.

If you are truly a man of Christ, you must stop this sinful practice!
It is a disgusting and revolting act, but procreation is the only way to raise God's army!

Exodus 21:22 - If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman's husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine.

Deuteronomy 25:5-6 - If brethren dwell together, and one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry without unto a stranger: her husband's brother shall go in unto her, and take her to him to wife, and perform the duty of an husband's brother unto her.