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  • Advice please?

    So, as you might know, I am attending high school. On Friday, after class, a boy named Hugh asked me to "grab some coffee" with him.
    Outwardly, he seems like a good Christian boy, he attends church, his parents are friends with my parents. He is in debate club and Allies, the Christian club.
    However, I have seen him with several girls several times, including with my friend Ashley. When I asked what she was doing with him, she just laughed and said, "Hugh and I are, um, just, friends, you know?" After a few days, Ashley didn't mention Hugh again and seemed very depressed.
    Should I accept his offer? What do you think happened with Ashley and Hugh? I'm a bit confused. I mean, whenever he comes over with his family, my parents say he's a good boy.
    Just a Christian Girl.

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    Re: Advice please?

    What does your father say about all this? Has he arranged a proper chaperone for you to meet this boy outside of the home?
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    • #3
      Re: Advice please?

      Originally posted by ChristianBeliever View Post
      So, as you might know, I am attending high school. On Friday, after class, a boy named Hugh asked me to "grab some coffee" with him.
      Outwardly, he seems like a good Christian boy, he attends church, his parents are friends with my parents. He is in debate club and Allies, the Christian club.
      However, I have seen him with several girls several times, including with my friend Ashley. When I asked what she was doing with him, she just laughed and said, "Hugh and I are, um, just, friends, you know?" After a few days, Ashley didn't mention Hugh again and seemed very depressed.
      Should I accept his offer? What do you think happened with Ashley and Hugh? I'm a bit confused. I mean, whenever he comes over with his family, my parents say he's a good boy.
      I'm not following. Was this boy in your home? Why? Does your mother home school other people's children?

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      • #4
        Re: Advice please?

        I really don't understand why you are in any way meeting boys or thinking of meeting boys without your father having arranged it.
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        • #5
          Re: Advice please?

          Originally posted by ChristianBeliever View Post
          So, as you might know, I am attending high school. On Friday, after class, a boy named Hugh asked me to "grab some coffee" with him.
          Outwardly, he seems like a good Christian boy, he attends church, his parents are friends with my parents. He is in debate club and Allies, the Christian club.
          However, I have seen him with several girls several times, including with my friend Ashley. When I asked what she was doing with him, she just laughed and said, "Hugh and I are, um, just, friends, you know?" After a few days, Ashley didn't mention Hugh again and seemed very depressed.
          Should I accept his offer? What do you think happened with Ashley and Hugh? I'm a bit confused. I mean, whenever he comes over with his family, my parents say he's a good boy.
          I, personally, would stick with girls...for friends.

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          • #6
            Re: Advice please?

            Originally posted by ChristianBeliever View Post
            So, as you might know, I am attending high school. On Friday, after class, a boy named Hugh asked me to "grab some coffee" with him.
            Outwardly, he seems like a good Christian boy, he attends church, his parents are friends with my parents. He is in debate club and Allies, the Christian club.
            However, I have seen him with several girls several times, including with my friend Ashley. When I asked what she was doing with him, she just laughed and said, "Hugh and I are, um, just, friends, you know?" After a few days, Ashley didn't mention Hugh again and seemed very depressed.
            Should I accept his offer? What do you think happened with Ashley and Hugh? I'm a bit confused. I mean, whenever he comes over with his family, my parents say he's a good boy.
            High school is too young to be getting involved with guys. Believe me, I can tell you stories of girls I know who started getting involved with guys in high school- it never works out. Focus on Jesus, and don't let the distraction of this dude get in the way.
            Blessings!

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            • #7
              Re: Advice please?

              Originally posted by shy Rita View Post
              High school is too young to be getting involved with guys. Believe me, I can tell you stories of girls I know who started getting involved with guys in high school- it never works out. Focus on Jesus, and don't let the distraction of this dude get in the way.
              Blessings!
              She should be with her father as he arranges for her to marry a good True Christian boy. She certainly shouldn't be getting into the habit of listening to other females and their feelings and emotions. You seem to be trying to use your own opinion teach...
              Revelation 2:20 Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.

              I think we can see where that leads.
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              Isaiah 34:6 The sword of the LORD is filled with blood, it is made fat with fatness, and with the blood of lambs and goats, with the fat of the kidneys of rams: for the LORD hath a sacrifice in Bozrah, and a great slaughter in the land of Idumea.

              John 5:46,47 For had ye believed Moses, ye would have believed me: for he wrote of me. But if ye believe not his writings, how shall ye believe my words?

              Join me in scoffing at backwards Muslims clinging to their beliefs in the face of the evidence!
              The truth about volcanos
              Sex and debauchery in public schools
              Faith wins over science (explained for even the very stupid)
              God Cures AIDS - GLORY!
              Desert whale bones prove Great Flood once and for all.

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              • #8
                Re: Advice please?

                Originally posted by Redeemed Papist View Post
                She should be with her father as he arranges for her to marry a good True Christian boy. She certainly shouldn't be getting into the habit of listening to other females and their feelings and emotions. You seem to be trying to use your own opinion teach...
                Revelation 2:20 Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.

                I think we can see where that leads.
                I understand. I was just trying to discourage the idea, nothing more. Sorry if I seem uppity, I'm not sensible is all. I don't mean to try to speak from opinion.

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