i know in the bible it says to be subservient to you husband but what if you don't have a husband any more?
Do you still have a father?
Bible boring? Nonsense! Try Bible in a Year with Brother V, or join Shirlee and the kids as they discuss Real Bible Stories! You can't be a Christian if you don't know God's Word!
I have this feeling that you are also without proper male guidance... in the circumstances,this passage applies to you: Nu:30:9: But every vow of a widow, and of her that is divorced, wherewith they have bound their souls, shall stand against her.
Your only real restriction is Le:21:14: A widow, or a divorced woman, or profane, or an harlot, these shall he not take: but he shall take a virgin of his own people to wife. This prevents you from marrying a pastor.
Basically, you are responsible for your own decisions, but naturally, a man will decide your fate and/or guilt with due reference to the Word of God.
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“We must reassert that the essence of Christianity is the love of obedience to God’s Laws and that how that complete obedience is used or implemented does not concern us.”
I know this is a "men only" forum but I find it so intriguing! I am a woman and I cannot share my views with other women - they think I'm insane! Yes - punish her. Pre-emptively punish her. The testing thing - I think that's just toying with her. I personally will admit I'd support my man testing me if he wanted to. He is there to protect and support me but in turn, I must obey him and cater to him. If he wants me to travel between rooms only on all fours - I would do that for him. I wish he would take things a little further than just an occassional beating. He lets me get away with too much and by reading your forums, I am getting ideas to share with him.
Thank you.
I know this is a "men only" forum but I find it so intriguing! I am a woman and I cannot share my views with other women - they think I'm insane! Yes - punish her. Pre-emptively punish her. The testing thing - I think that's just toying with her. I personally will admit I'd support my man testing me if he wanted to. He is there to protect and support me but in turn, I must obey him and cater to him. If he wants me to travel between rooms only on all fours - I would do that for him. I wish he would take things a little further than just an occassional beating. He lets me get away with too much and by reading your forums, I am getting ideas to share with him.
Thank you.
I suppose that sounds encouraging, Miss Cornfedchick, but I wonder if your heart is truly right with Jesus -- Or if you're one of those new fangled S&M lesbianacs, who get their "thrills" from gargling the grape juice at Communion.
One could have very easy said that about me in years past but I am a firm believer two people cannot run a household. One must make the rules; the other must follow. Disagreements simply do not lead to unity, happiness and fulfillment. My desires are not just sexual - don't get me wrong. Sexuality is a small portion of it. It's a mentality. I want to make my man's life as easy as possible. he deals with enough stuff in daily life. He should WANT to come home and be able to do nothing but relax and unwind and expect to be greeted with a cold beer and a hot dinner. If by playing a game with me, he is able to gain humour and relieve stresses from the day - so be it. It's my job to be his release.
I can appreciate from where you are coming but assure you, I am THANKFULLY beyond that finally.
One could have very easy said that about me in years past but I am a firm believer two people cannot run a household. One must make the rules; the other must follow. Disagreements simply do not lead to unity, happiness and fulfillment. My desires are not just sexual - don't get me wrong. Sexuality is a small portion of it. It's a mentality. I want to make my man's life as easy as possible. he deals with enough stuff in daily life. He should WANT to come home and be able to do nothing but relax and unwind and expect to be greeted with a cold beer and a hot dinner. If by playing a game with me, he is able to gain humour and relieve stresses from the day - so be it. It's my job to be his release.
I can appreciate from where you are coming but assure you, I am THANKFULLY beyond that finally.
You fail to mention his guiding you in Bible study. or his leaning you over the last pew in the rear of Fellowship Hall, after Wednesday night prayer meeting, for a one-on-one exploration of the nether-regions in Revelations.
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