[Lucifers_homeboy]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

Or maybe I should say God did. This morning my wife went to take a shower and I figured it'd be a good time to go into the hallway closet and have a quick prayer session. After I finished I went into the bedroom and she was putting her makeup on. She asked where I was and I told her I was working in the garage and she said I checked the garage and you weren't in there. I told her I must have been in the corner where she couldn't see me.

She asked if everything was ok, and that she noticed I had ordered a Bible from Amazon. I told her that I was reconsidering my views on God and there were going to be some changes in our house. I told her that she was going to have to leave or sell her company, we were going to start going to Church and she was to stay home to cook, clean and homeschool the kids. And keep in mind the whole time she's looking at me like I'm crazy and I'm feeling disrespected in my own house. I got around to Halloween and how we would not be observing it anymore and that pumpkin pies were not to be made anymore. I told her it had to stop.

She looked me in the eye and said "Are you out of your mind?!?" and that's when God himself spoke to me and said "This is your house, I am your God and she is your wife, CONTROL HER!"

I'm ashamed to admit it but I hesitated, I didn't know what to do. That's when I felt Him enter my body and felt my hand raise up from my side. The back of my hand connected with her cheek and she screamed "What the f@*% is wrong with you?!!!" Again, as if acting on it's own my arm swung out again and hit her in the face and she was silent, crying on the bed where she had fell.

After a few moments I asked her if she understood the changes we would be making and she nodded yes, never looking up at me. I said "Good, now I've worked up an appetite, why don't you go make some lunch." She replied that we didn't have anything to make and asked if she could go to the store and I said that was fine. She then asked if she could take the kids with her as they haven't been outside all day and that it would give me some peace and quiet to study my Bible.

I feel our talk was very productive and that she understands her role as she asked me permission to leave the house. And I feel overjoyed that God himself entered me and filled me with his Love and showed me firsthand how to deal with a disobedient wife. But most importantly I feel I have the proof I've spent my whole life searching for. God took control of my body and spoke to me personally!! I feel so blessed that he chose to reveal himself to me.

The wife should be home any minute now, she's been gone an hour and a half, I don't know what's taking her so long. I guess we were very low on food so she had a lot to buy. Thanks for reading, I just wanted to share the progress I've made!

hahaha your wifes left ya mate and shes took the kids shes gonna be having pumpkin pies with her bairns at her parents house while they sort out a divorce lawyer

[Krinsleth]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

You are a liar, God never spoke to you. I hear God on daily basis and He never would say such a thing, Bible says all liars have their part in the lake of fire. Repent. In case you truly believe it was God, let me show you some scripture of why that voice was not God.1 Peter 3:7 - Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with [them] according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Ephesians 5:28
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
I will not tolerate anyone who bashes my Lord's name, that voice you heard of, was of the devil. How do I know? I've heard the voice of the Lord and the voice of deceiving demons, I know how they think and I know how my God thinks.
May the Lord give you discernment to be able to differentiate the voice of God and of the devil as you walk through this path.

[Krinsleth]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

Ephesians 5:25-33
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Now, when has God spanked you or punched you? If He did not, who are you to hit your wife? her "head"?, you do not even submit to Christ with His methods. If you submitted to Christ, you would ask Him how to "discipline" and He would tell you, but no, you want to take things into your own hands, how disobedient and rebellious!
Now, you are one flesh with your wife, if you hit her make sure to punch yourself as well, so that you can totally be one flesh as God commands.
Jeremiah 31:2-4
3 The Lord hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.
Collosians 3:19
19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Psalm 11:5

The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence.








1 Timothy 3:3

Not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.

[Krinsleth]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

I have always wondered if I should have physically disciplined my (now) ex-wife more before she (then) left me.

I think on balance I’m glad I did not as she quickly chose to be attracted to the same sex sexualism in a sexualised sexualistic manner.

As she is now far stronger than any normal man and might take it into her lesbiopath brain to assault me. The mighty muscles of the lesbian have a similar musculoskeletal aspect of a chimpanzee or gorilla (and is often used by atheioevolutistcialim advocates to suggest chimps and people are related).

But just because lesbians are a strong as a gorilla does not mean they ARE gorillas: that’s just common sense.

As I’m now in the beginnings of a romantic relationship with Magda I will not make the same mistakes of the past.

I have developed a scheme I call Proactive Discipline

This time is more considered, loving and reasonable: I shall begin Proactive Discipline by lovingly undermining her self esteem by lovingly criticising her when she felt any sense of pride or accomplishment.

My current research on my soon to be wife, Magda (who used to be my house keeper so is accustomed to servility) has indicated that good phrases for Proactive Discipline are: "yeah, but you could have done better, couldn't you?", "did you actually think that was good enough?", "for God's sake, I'll do it shall I?" and "why are you crying?."

You see what you may notice is that they are all questions that ask her to justify her thoughts and actions. A Biblical(KJV1611) beating does not HAVE to be physical: just effective.

That's right: I encourage her to ALWAYS seek my approval for everything she thinks or does, EVER. A great way to do this is to imply at every turn that she is NOTHING without me and that NOBODY BUT ME will ever like her.

I gently imply that other people see her for the shallow empty thing that she is (using a healthy confirmation bias that low confidence people always have) and that hey talk about her and judge her (I do my best to chose personality traits of hers she feels worst about) behind her back: and they laugh at her.

To reduce the chance of hateful outsiders trying to break up our Christian love match I’m leaving subtle hints that she has started taking antidepressants (citalopram 40mg is a good choice as you can say she has an anxiety disorder and well as depression) were her family and friends might find them.

When I (unfortunately) have to speak to her ghastly Polish family I constantly make good hearted excuses for her being so quiet so as to foster the idea that she is greatly disturbed and they will gradually start to withdraw their friendship and support (remember, no one likes a mentalist) from her and doubtless she will soon realise this and she will feel more isolated and lonely than ever.

From here I fully intend to reinforce the idea that NOBODY LOVES HER LIKE I DO. This is very important: I must become the centre of her entire world (I can't stress this enough, I really can't).

Eventually I predict that she will become dependent on me and any unavoidable bruises can be dealt with by keeping her inside by saying "she's having a bad day, she missed her meds...". This should also endear me to her friends and I can monitor any nosy parkers from sticking their beaks where they are not wanted.

Well, I’m going to see how this pans out.

Prayers would be appreciated.

YIC

Ephesians 5:25-33
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Now, when has God spanked you or punched you? If He did not, who are you to hit your wife? her "head"?, you do not even submit to Christ with His methods. If you submitted to Christ, you would ask Him how to "discipline" and He would tell you, but no, you want to take things into your own hands, how disobedient and rebellious!
Now, you are one flesh with your wife, if you hit her make sure to punch yourself as well, so that you can totally be one flesh as God commands.
Jeremiah 31:2-4
3 The Lord hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.
Collosians 3:19
19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.
Psalm 11:5

The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence.






1 Timothy 3:3Not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.






You are disobedient to Christ, repent.

[Didymus Much]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

You are a liar, God never spoke to you. I hear God on daily basis and He never would say such a thing, Bible says all liars have their part in the lake of fire....

And the tissue gauntlet is thrown.

[handmaiden]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

You are a liar, God never spoke to you. I hear God on daily basis

Can you prove that? Can you prove that He didn't also speak to any other person making that same claim?

I will not tolerate anyone who bashes my Lord's name,

Okay, I think that you may be taking the whole, "My personal Lord and Savior" thing a bit far. You say that like Jesus is your Lord and yours only. And exactly what form will your non-tolerance take? Are you planning on hitting someone?

. . that voice you heard of, was of the devil. How do I know?

Thank you for bringing that up! I was just about to ask the question myself.

. . . I've heard the voice of the Lord and the voice of deceiving demons, I know how they think and I know how my God thinks.

Well, you have just admitted to hearing the voices of demons. That's a red flag for many people. And again, your use of the possessive pronoun comes across as a little. . .exclusionary--just saying. You might want to modify that, or people will find you a bit off-putting. Not me, of course. I find you delightful and refreshing.

May the Lord give you discernment to be able to differentiate the voice of God and of the devil as you walk through this path.

And may you be granted some eye-opening discernment as well as you follow your own path.

[WWJDnow]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

Krinsleth, of course men should love their wives. That doesn't mean we shouldn't beat them. The Bible doesn't tell us not to beat those whom we love. In fact, it tells us that we should beat them. Consider Proverbs 13:24:

He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

This does not mean that a man can beat a woman for any reason. No, he must beat his wife only when she fails to submit to him or engages in other sinful behavior (such as reading or posting in the Men's Only forum, Sister handmaiden). Otherwise, the beating would not be a loving act. Beating one's wife should be a corrective measure, not an act of gratuitous violence.

[Vali-the-Minister]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

Some women bring this upon themselves, for disobeying the Lords will.


Thanks to the Lords grace, he sent me a woman that has never shown disobedience. But, when I met her during my final dark day. I had been lured to the bed of an unworthy vile succubus. During an argument she spat on my bible and cursed the Lords name. In that moment I felt the Lords wrath fill me, and as I released it upon her. She cried for help her "sis". In walked the most innocent creature I had the honor to lay my eyes upon. I immediately began to apologize and explain. She took me by the hand and proclaimed "That is no sister of mine, your actions were the Lord's will". She bandaged my bleeding knuckles and we spent the evening discussing revelations.

[Basilissa]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

we spent the evening discussing revelations.

Please, do not keep us in suspense - which revelations did you discuss?


Or do you mean the final book of the Bible which is titled "Revelation" (please note singular form)?

[Alex79]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

[QUOTE = Joseph McManus; 697884] Или, может быть, я должен сказать, что это сделал Бог. Этим утром моя жена пошла принять душ, и я подумал, что сейчас самое подходящее время, чтобы пройти в кладовку в коридоре и быстро помолиться. Закончив, я пошел в спальню, а она накрасилась. Она спросила, где я, и я сказал ей, что работаю в гараже, и она сказала, что я проверил гараж, а тебя там нет. Я сказал ей, что, должно быть, был в углу, где она меня не видела.

Она спросила, все ли в порядке, и что она заметила, что я заказал Библию на Amazon. Я сказал ей, что пересматриваю свои взгляды на Бога и что в нашем доме произойдут некоторые изменения. Я сказал ей, что ей придется уйти или продать свою компанию, мы собираемся начать ходить в церковь, а она должна остаться дома, чтобы готовить, убирать и обучать детей на дому. И имейте в виду, что она все время смотрит на меня, как на сумасшедшего, и я чувствую себя неуважением в собственном доме. Я добрался до Хэллоуина и того, что мы больше не будем его наблюдать и что тыквенные пироги больше не будут пекаться. Я сказал ей, что это нужно прекратить.

Она посмотрела мне в глаза и сказала: «Ты что, сошла с ума?!?» и тогда сам Бог обратился ко мне и сказал: «Это твой дом, я твой Бог, а она твоя жена,

Стыдно признаться, но я заколебался, я не знал, что делать. Тогда я почувствовал, что Он вошел в мое тело, и моя рука поднялась от меня. Тыльной стороной моей руки она коснулась ее щеки, и она закричала: «Что, черт возьми, с тобой не так? !!!» Опять же, как будто действуя самостоятельно, моя рука снова развернулась и ударила ее по лицу, и она молчала, плача на кровати, на которую упала.

Через несколько секунд я спросил ее, понимает ли она, какие изменения мы будем вносить, и она кивнула, даже не глядя на меня. Я сказал: «Хорошо, теперь у меня появился аппетит, почему бы тебе не пойти приготовить обед». Она ответила, что нам нечего делать, и спросила, может ли она пойти в магазин, и я сказал, что это нормально. Затем она спросила, может ли она взять детей с собой, поскольку они не выходили на улицу весь день, и что это даст мне немного покоя и покоя, чтобы изучать мою Библию.

Я чувствую, что наш разговор был очень продуктивным, и что она понимает свою роль, когда она попросила у меня разрешения выйти из дома. И я очень рад, что Сам Бог вошел в меня, наполнил меня Своей Любовью и показал мне из первых рук, как вести себя с непослушной женой. Но самое главное, я чувствую, что у меня есть доказательство, которое я искал всю свою жизнь. Бог взял под контроль мое тело и поговорил со мной лично !! Я чувствую себя таким счастливым, что он решил открыться мне.

Жена должна быть дома с минуты на минуту, ее не было полтора часа, я не знаю, почему она так долго. Я думаю, у нас было очень мало еды, поэтому ей было что купить. Спасибо, что прочитали, я просто хотел поделиться своим прогрессом! [/ QUOTE]=======================================
¹ Верно слово: если кто епископства желает, доброго дела желает. ² Но епископ должен быть непорочен, одной жены своим мужем, трезв, целомудрен, благочинен, честен, страннолюбив, учителен, ³ не пьяница, не бийца, не сварлив, не корыстолюбив, но тих, миролюбив, не сребролюбив, ⁴ хорошо управляющий дом, детей благоприят в послушании со всякою честностью; ⁵ кто ибо не умеет управлять собственным домом, тот будет ли пещись о Церкви Божией? ⁶ Не должен быть из новообращенных, чтобы не возгордился и не подпал осуждению с диаволом. ⁷ Надлежит ему также иметь доброе свидетельство от внешних, чтобы не впасть в нарекание и сеть диавольскую.1 Тимофею 3: 1-7
© Библия Онлайн, 2003-2021.
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¹ Это верное высказывание: «Если человек желает епископа, он желает и доброго дела». ² Тогда епископ должен быть непорочным, муж одной жены, бдительным, трезвым, хорошего поведения, гостеприимным, способным учить; ³ Не склонный к вину, не забивающий, не жадный до грязной наживы; но терпеливый, а не скандалист, не алчный; ⁴ Тот, кто хорошо управляет своим домом, имея своих детей в подчинении со всей серьезностью; ⁵ (Ибо если человек не умеет управлять своим домом, как он должен заботиться о церкви Божьей?) Не послушник, чтобы, возвысившись от гордости, не упасть на осуждение дьявола. ⁷ Кроме того, он должен иметь хороший отчет о тех, кто находится снаружи; чтобы он не впал в поругание и в сеть диавола. 1 Тимофею 3: 1-7
© Библия Онлайн, 2003-2021.

[Alex79]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

The husband simply has no right to beat his wife or anyone else, but if this happened, then do not try to justify it with some "revelations".
You need to ask your wife for forgiveness.

[Basilissa]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

(gibberish)

The husband simply has no right to beat his wife or anyone else, but if this happened, then do not try to justify it with some "revelations".
You need to ask your wife for forgiveness.

Can you justify that with Scripture?

I'll start:

Ephesians 5:22-24
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing.

See the last three words? "In every thing." That means the husband can do whatever he wants and the wife needs to obey in silence.

[handmaiden]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

Can you justify that with Scripture?

I'll start:

Ephesians 5:22-24
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing.

See the last three words? "In every thing." That means the husband can do whatever he wants and the wife needs to obey in silence.

Right on, Sister! A man needs to ask his wife for forgiveness like Jesus needs to ask the Church to stop talking about Him all the time.

[James Hutchins]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

A strong willed woman takes what life dishes out, never faltering and subjugating herself to Christ, her husband and her sons.
If a female collapses like a gunny sack of potatoes after a punch in the gut, how does she expect to produce sons for God? You have to be realistic and sensible.

[Ryan2021]

Re: I hit my wife for the first time

Do you have a LEATHER BELT/STRAP you can beat her with?