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  • So... Here I am

    Hello, my name is Lindsey and I am an 18 year old girl from Tennessee. First, let me say how I found this site to shed some light on just what I am doing here. Basically I googled "Christian arranged marriage" and this was one of the first sites that came up. I am II a weird situation. I am much more conservative than my parents or my church and I truly believe in and desire the idea of a arranged marriage. I don't know how to meet someone like minded and I dont want to date around anyway. Maybe that's why I never dated. My parents however are not like that so what do I do? I want to be "sold" in a sense by have no one to arrange such a thing. I can't arrange my own marriage!! You all are luck to not be stuck in a family who are not believers.

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    Welcome to the forum, Lindsey. I hope you will find a spiritual home here. But first off, please tell us what church you go to and what your favorite Bible verse is and how you came to find Jesus. We would like to know more about you.
    sigpicMt 21:42, 44 Jesus saith unto them, Did ye never read in the scriptures, The stone which the builders rejected, the same is become the head of the corner: this is the Lord's doing, and it is marvellous in our eyes . . . ? And whosoever shall fall on this stone shall be broken: but on whomsoever it shall fall, it will grind him to powder.

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      What a strange request.

      You should marry someone you love, not any other reason.

      ThinksDesign.
      I whore for Satan

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        Originally posted by Lindsey View Post
        Hello, my name is Lindsey and I am an 18 year old girl from Tennessee. First, let me say how I found this site to shed some light on just what I am doing here. Basically I googled "Christian arranged marriage" and this was one of the first sites that came up. I am II a weird situation. I am much more conservative than my parents or my church and I truly believe in and desire the idea of a arranged marriage. I don't know how to meet someone like minded and I dont want to date around anyway. Maybe that's why I never dated. My parents however are not like that so what do I do? I want to be "sold" in a sense by have no one to arrange such a thing. I can't arrange my own marriage!! You all are luck to not be stuck in a family who are not believers.
        Welcome, young lady.

        As a doctor with my own house and two cars I can see exactly where you are comming from here, I expect.

        What you need to do if contact one of the Pastors at Landover to have them point you in the right direction of the most eligible recently single bachelor of our most inclusive church.

        I'm sure the Pastors would be able to easily identify such a fitting man for you to become a help meet to.

        Genesis 2:18
        And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

        Genesis 2:20
        And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

        Now I must cut this short as my next patient has arrived for therapy at the practice I manage.
        1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

        Revelation 22:15 For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers, and idolaters, and whosoever loveth and maketh a lie.

        Leviticus 20:13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

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          Well Lindsey, the best way for a marriage to be arranged for you is to ask a Pastor to help you and select a suitable man.
          Isaiah 45:7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things.
          Amos 3:6 Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?
          Numbers 21:6 And the LORD sent fiery serpents among the people, and they bit the people; and much people of Israel died.
          Matthew 10:34 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
          Matthew 10:35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
          Matthew 10:36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

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            Originally posted by Lindsey View Post
            I want to be "sold"
            I'll give you twenty bucks. When can you get here? My house is a mess and I'm starving.

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              Thanks everyone for your advice and even the sarcasm in the last reply. I attend a southern baptist church and my favorite verse is 1 Peter 3:1-2. I know it's about marriage but I kind of apply it to my parents.

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                Originally posted by Lindsey View Post
                and even the sarcasm in the last reply
                What makes you think it is sarcasm? Last time I visited Deaner, his house was most certainly a mess, so if anyone is in need of a decent Christian wife, it is Deaner!
                5 Reasons why GOD HATES WOMEN!
                To most "Christians" The Bible is like a license agreement. They just scroll to the bottom and click "I agree". All those "Christians" will burn in Hell!
                James 2:10 "For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all."

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                  Originally posted by BibleSweatHog View Post
                  What a strange request.

                  You should marry someone you love, not any other reason.

                  ThinksDesign.
                  Please ignore this drooling harpy. She's a prime example of why women should never, ever, be allowed to speak without the approval of their husbands.
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                  Isaiah 34:6 The sword of the LORD is filled with blood, it is made fat with fatness, and with the blood of lambs and goats, with the fat of the kidneys of rams: for the LORD hath a sacrifice in Bozrah, and a great slaughter in the land of Idumea.

                  John 5:46,47 For had ye believed Moses, ye would have believed me: for he wrote of me. But if ye believe not his writings, how shall ye believe my words?

                  Join me in scoffing at backwards Muslims clinging to their beliefs in the face of the evidence!
                  The truth about volcanos
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                  God Cures AIDS - GLORY!
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                    So .. 2 questions.. The first is to get back to my original question and the second is when do I get to not be "unsaved trash"?

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                      Originally posted by Lindsey View Post
                      So .. 2 questions.. The first is to get back to my original question and the second is when do I get to not be "unsaved trash"?
                      I generally find that womenfolk can't process one question, let alone two.

                      You just keep that lip in check young lady, the pastors are praying for guidance right now.

                      One thing's for certain, Jesus hates uppity females.

                      YBIC

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                        Originally posted by Lindsey View Post
                        So .. 2 questions.. The first is to get back to my original question and the second is when do I get to not be "unsaved trash"?
                        Now Lindsey, let's not put the cart before the horse as they say. We need to focus on your personal relationship with Jesus. Do you pray to Him every day? Do you listen to what He tells you in reply? If you have truly been to your knees in front of Him, He will solve all of your problems and answer your questions.

                        1 John 5:14-15 "And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:

                        And if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him."

                        In Christ
                        Matthew 19:14 "But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven."

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                          Yes, of course I pray. That is how I came to the conclusion of what I seek but only to seek out help in finding it, which is how I came here. I dont know anyone qualified spiritually to help.

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                            Originally posted by Lindsey View Post
                            So .. 2 questions.. The first is to get back to my original question and the second is when do I get to not be "unsaved trash"?
                            Well hi there Lindsey.

                            Firstly welcome to the forum. Secondly please give brother Deaner a chance. As a True Christian he is exemplary, as a housekeeper he just needs a good Christian woman to do what needs to be done in line with The Holy Bible (KJV 1611). Give him a break, once you get to know him, like all of us here, you will come to love him.

                            Read this and think about it:

                            Ephesians 5:24

                            Therefore as the Church is subiect vnto Christ, so let the wiues bee to their owne husbands in euery thing.
                            Isaiah 66:15

                            For behold, the Lord wil come with fire, and with his charets like a whirlewinde, to render his anger with furie, and his rebuke with flames of fire.

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                              I don't not like him at all... I wasn't trying to be mean and sorry if I offended.

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