[Bobby-Joe]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

Pressing charges is the right thing to do. Just because she was raped doesn't mean it's her fault.. Old women get raped.. Oh those old wrinkles make a man so aroused. Are you people joking? Who knows if she was dressed in such a way or was acting on such a way that she made the man rape her. As as for the baby, that should be her choice. If she wants to have an abortion, then so be it.

Godly point. It's hard to see why any man would want to have sex with a woman. It's been obvious to me for a long time that most sex is just women entrapping men for the woman's depraved purposes. Most likely these so called "rapes" are just acts of self defense on the men part.

Not that our men hating secular society would accept that.

[catholic user]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

You make it sound like this girl is a 'rape-victim'. Let's be clear here, the ONLY victim of rape is the man. He is the one who let this little temptress tease him into committing sin, and he is the one the courts victimize and throw into prison, when this girl was probably dressed as a whore and just asking to be raped. If girls didn't dress like prostitutes and sluts, poor men like this wouldnt fall into their trap. It's up to the girl to do the right thing, she obviously led this man on, and she should have to deal with the consequences. You play, you pay!

Really, my fiance was raped at 14 years old,and molested at 6. so it's her fault she was dressed appropriate and did nothing wrong at all. It's just fine for a full grown man to take what "he" wants. Let's say for example, you dress in a suit nice watch. You give to the poor. You get robbed, well, you obviously yempted the man by wearing this suit, and watch. Also you gave out money, so he is the true victim.

I've had to hold my fiance because she was suffered trama from this. She gets flashbacks and literally will wake crying. Those men take. They deserve no sympathy and will rot. Just likle those who think it is just fine.

[Pastor Isaac Peters]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

Really, my fiance was raped at 14 years old,and molested at 6. so it's her fault she was dressed appropriate and did nothing wrong at all. It's just fine for a full grown man to take what "he" wants. Let's say for example, you dress in a suit nice watch. You give to the poor. You get robbed, well, you obviously yempted the man by wearing this suit, and watch. Also you gave out money, so he is the true victim.

I've had to hold my fiance because she was suffered trama from this. She gets flashbacks and literally will wake crying. Those men take. They deserve no sympathy and will rot. Just likle those who think it is just fine.

What do you have to say about the Scripture quoted in the OP?

[Cranky Old Man]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

Really, my fiance was raped at 14 years old,and molested at 6

You should dump that slut immediately and find a proper virgin Christian lady instead.

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist?

They deserve no sympathy and will rot. Just likle those who think it is just fine.

You think the LORD GOD should rot!



Of all the commands and demands made by Him, preserved in the Holy Bible, where do you see anything about not having sex a woman who pretends she's not "in the mood"? In all the laws regarding selling slaves, selling daughters as slaves, marrying slaves, where do you see anything about sex with deviant, noncompliant women and girls being wrong?

Judges 21:10-24

Numbers 31:7-18

Deuteronomy 20:10-14

Deuteronomy 22:28-29

Deuteronomy 21:10-14

Exodus 21:7-11

Zechariah 14:1-2

Friend, not a single one of these suggest having sex with a woman when says she's not "in the mood" is morally wrong. If God Himself doesn't think it's morally wrong, then why should she get any sympathy? Clearly she's not been offended, except for her prideful, spoiled ego for having to endure the consequences of leading on a man. But for this you'd want God Himself to rot?

[dundalklad]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

So you give out about priests raping people ...sick sick people

[Bobby-Joe]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

So you give out about priests raping people ...sick sick people

Yes, we Baptists think Catholic Priests raping children is disgusting.

[Kayla Mullin]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

This may not have the best grammar because I am typing from my phone, but I'd like to relay the events from the night I was brutally raped to all of you trolls or not. I was 16 and it was late at night in the middle of summer. I had just gotten a new job at a bank in the downtown area. I of course had to dress pretty nicely. Dress suits or blouses and skirts or trousers or what not. I was alone at my desk at 10 pm finishing up before going home because my boss needed me to and who was I to refuse? The pay was great and I was beig treated well by everyone. Working late was the least I could do. I was alone in the office except for the cleaning crew so I relaxed and let my hair down from the ponytail I had it in. I remember I kept hearig shuffling and scuttling noises abnormal to the cleaning crews normal roundabouts of the office. I was scared being alone and so young and on my own for the first time so I thought it'd be the correct time to go back home. Now the downtown area has a lot of metered parking and I didnt feel like paying so I parked rated far away in a free parking lot. On my way back to my car around 11:20 it happened. A black truck from the mid 90s pulled up behind me and stopped. No one got out but they stayed there for a few minutes. Now it was a 2-4 minute walk to my car and I had only just started so I walked faster. The car started and followed me again. Before I could react and sprint to my car or to civilization four men at least a foot taller and 100 pounds heavier than me (I'm 5'0" and weigh 90 pounds) got out from the truck and grabbed me. I was violently thrown into the bed of this truck while three of the men got in with me and the other man drove away. They took out knives and started cutting off my clothes while simultaneously cutting into my legs and stomach. I was so paralyzed by fear I couldn't move all I could do was scream into the hands covering my mouth and cry. The reckless driving caused my body to slam around into these men and violently twist and turn. Once we arrived they carried me behind a warehouse and three me against the brick wall so hard I had a fracture on my skull. The man who drove decided to hold my wrists above my head with one hand while punching my in the ribs with the other. Punching me until I coughed up blood and could barely move. He broke 2 ribs. They hit and cut my face and continued beating me until I could barely open my eyes or talk. Then while keeping my hands bound they turned me around and took turns raping me anally until I bled. Saying things like "congratulations Sweety. You get a turn with a real stud tonight" and "yeah fuck her good man. Fuck her until she can't sit" once all four had had their turn with me they dropped me to the ground and forced their penises fully down my throat until I vomited on them and myself. Eventually dislocating my jaw to where I couldn't speak. They beat me for a few minutes (it felt like centuries) before leaving me a crumpled mess on dirty concrete by the dumpsters and getting back in the car and driving away. Naked with eyes swollen shut, a fractured skull, dislocated jaw, two broken ribs, one broken wrist, one fractured wrist, anal tearing, cuts, and bruises. I was found the next day around 1 pm. Would you tell me to marry these men?

[Pastor Ezekiel]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

Would you tell me to marry these men?

Just one of them.

You have to obey God's laws little lady. Polyandry is not allowed.

Please make a thread of your own in the "Introductions" section of the forum, so that we can properly greet you. Tell us about yourself, your church, and how you came to find Jesus.

And if you're here to flame us, better take a look at THIS before making an even bigger ass out of yourself.

[Zechariah Smyth]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

A mid 90s truck, huh? That poor guy might not he able to come up with the money to pay your father.



(Deuteronomy 22:28-29) "If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days."

Yours in Christ,

Z. Smyth

[Redeemed Papist]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

Where else can we look to for morals on rape? As we see from the Bible rape is primarily a crime against your father as who's going to take on soiled property? God's not really all that concerned about all the issues raised in that account of why chaperones are necessary and why women should stay indoors. Seeing as how taking of virgins as spoils of war is celebrated in the Bible we are not really expected to be too worried about what women actually want - they are property.

The reason we now have a society that panders to the desires of women is because of the rise of neo-paganism and feminism. As a result we now have a wholly skewed society that ignores completely the sound Biblical value of a woman as valuable property for the raising of children and maintenance of the home. Small wonder we raise men who don't respect these women's owners if we have no respect for the values the Bible tries to instill in us.

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

Would you tell me to marry these men?

It may sound confusing to your mind, dear, but that's only because you don't have Jesus in your heart. (Psalm 14:1) If you would come to know the LORD like I do, then you too could see that God can be trusted to be true to His Word. He is sovereign. If He says you ought to marry your rapist, then it's for a greater purpose. Perhaps He desires to lead your rapist to salvation so he can be adopted, become a joint heir with Christ, and give him a crown of righteousness, "which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award"! (Romans 8:17)

Oh praise JESUS that He will take even the most depraved sinners into His Glorious Domain!

[Kayla Mullin]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

It may sound confusing to your mind, dear, but that's only because you don't have Jesus in your heart. (Psalm 14:1) If you would come to know the LORD like I do, then you too could see that God can be trusted to be true to His Word. He is sovereign. If He says you ought to marry your rapist, then it's for a greater purpose. Perhaps He desires to lead your rapist to salvation so he can be adopted, become a joint heir with Christ, and give him a crown of righteousness, "which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award"! (Romans 8:17)

Oh praise JESUS that He will take even the most depraved sinners into His Glorious Domain!

It does confuse me. I was put in the hospital for months to recover. I still have severe emotional trauma and I barely leave my house anymore. I haven't been able to regain my life since that night. I have no friends and no family left. I'm only thankful that I didn't get pregnant. These men took everything away from me for no reason. I didn't even know them. I was just a young girl and my first experience with the adult world, the "real world", was this. I can barely live with myself over half the time. I did believe in god before that night. Please if any of you have daughters think of finding them at 16 in an alleyway in a puddle of blood so damaged she can't move or speak looking up t you and crying through eyes swollen almost completely shut and then happily welcoming the man that did that to her into your family. Eating with the man who would hurt her every night. Or what if it was your mother or sister? I went through a serious bout with anorexia after the event. I weighed 75 pounds up until last year because the smell of Cheetos on his breath made all food repulsive. If he just beat the absolute life out of me and had not raped me would I be different? Would I have supporters anywhere?

[Redeemed Papist]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

It does confuse me. I was put in the hospital for months to recover. I still have severe emotional trauma and I barely leave my house anymore. I haven't been able to regain my life since that night. I have no friends and no family left. I'm only thankful that I didn't get pregnant. These men took everything away from me for no reason. I didn't even know them. I was just a young girl and my first experience with the adult world, the "real world", was this. I can barely live with myself over half the time. I did believe in god before that night. Please if any of you have daughters think of finding them at 16 in an alleyway in a puddle of blood so damaged she can't move or speak looking up t you and crying through eyes swollen almost completely shut and then happily welcoming the man that did that to her into your family. Eating with the man who would hurt her every night. Or what if it was your mother or sister? I went through a serious bout with anorexia after the event. I weighed 75 pounds up until last year because the smell of Cheetos on his breath made all food repulsive. If he just beat the absolute life out of me and had not raped me would I be different? Would I have supporters anywhere?

I'm sure every word is true but God must have a reason for making compensation for the father and legitimacy for any offspring His number one priority.

[Mary Etheldreda]

Re: What can you do if your daughter refuses to marry her rapist??

I did believe in god before that night.

Perhaps God is testing you.